September 26, 2017

WHAT'S IN YOUR WALLET . . . ER, BACK POCKET?

Proverbs 7

Sue Bohlin
Tuesday's Devo

September 26, 2017

Tuesday's Devo

September 26, 2017

Central Truth

The adulteress of Proverbs 7 has left her corner and jumped into your back pocket or laptop. What are you doing to say no to her seductions?

Key Verse | Proverbs 7:21–23

With much seductive speech she persuades him;
with her smooth talk she compels him.
All at once he follows her,
as an ox goes to the slaughter,
or as a stag is caught fast
till an arrow pierces its liver;
as a bird rushes into a snare;
he does not know that it will cost him his life.
(Proverbs 7:21-23)

 

Proverbs 7

Warning Against the Adulteress

My son, keep my words
    and treasure up my commandments with you;
keep my commandments and live;
    keep my teaching as the apple of your eye;
bind them on your fingers;
    write them on the tablet of your heart.
Say to wisdom, “You are my sister,”
    and call insight your intimate friend,
to keep you from the forbidden 1 7:5 Hebrew strange woman,
    from the adulteress 2 7:5 Hebrew the foreign woman with her smooth words.

For at the window of my house
    I have looked out through my lattice,
and I have seen among the simple,
    I have perceived among the youths,
    a young man lacking sense,
passing along the street near her corner,
    taking the road to her house
in the twilight, in the evening,
    at the time of night and darkness.

10  And behold, the woman meets him,
    dressed as a prostitute, wily of heart. 3 7:10 Hebrew guarded in heart
11  She is loud and wayward;
    her feet do not stay at home;
12  now in the street, now in the market,
    and at every corner she lies in wait.
13  She seizes him and kisses him,
    and with bold face she says to him,
14  “I had to offer sacrifices, 4 7:14 Hebrew peace offerings
    and today I have paid my vows;
15  so now I have come out to meet you,
    to seek you eagerly, and I have found you.
16  I have spread my couch with coverings,
    colored linens from Egyptian linen;
17  I have perfumed my bed with myrrh,
    aloes, and cinnamon.
18  Come, let us take our fill of love till morning;
    let us delight ourselves with love.
19  For my husband is not at home;
    he has gone on a long journey;
20  he took a bag of money with him;
    at full moon he will come home.”

21  With much seductive speech she persuades him;
    with her smooth talk she compels him.
22  All at once he follows her,
    as an ox goes to the slaughter,
or as a stag is caught fast 5 7:22 Probable reading (compare Septuagint, Vulgate, Syriac); Hebrew as a chain to discipline a fool
23      till an arrow pierces its liver;
as a bird rushes into a snare;
    he does not know that it will cost him his life.

24  And now, O sons, listen to me,
    and be attentive to the words of my mouth.
25  Let not your heart turn aside to her ways;
    do not stray into her paths,
26  for many a victim has she laid low,
    and all her slain are a mighty throng.
27  Her house is the way to Sheol,
    going down to the chambers of death.

Footnotes

[1] 7:5 Hebrew strange
[2] 7:5 Hebrew the foreign woman
[3] 7:10 Hebrew guarded in heart
[4] 7:14 Hebrew peace offerings
[5] 7:22 Probable reading (compare Septuagint, Vulgate, Syriac); Hebrew as a chain to discipline a fool

Dive Deeper | Proverbs 7

Today’s warning about the adulteress is excruciatingly valuable for us in 2017, for both men and women, boys and girls, because the adulteress has a new name: pornography. But instead of the forbidden woman hanging out on her corner to trap the simple young man lacking sense who passes along the street (verses 7-8), she has jumped into his back pocket.

If you have a smartphone with internet access, the immoral seductress of Proverbs 7 now waits for you, as close as your phone. And the younger you are, the more likely you are to keep that phone closer than anything else you own. You don’t need a smartphone, though; most porn is viewed online, so all you need is access to a computer.

But it’s not just young men. The vast majority of all men struggle with temptations to use porn, and growing numbers of girls and women are addicted to it as well. It is anticipated that, soon, porn viewing will be equally divided between males and females. So this chapter of Proverbs is powerfully relevant for all of us today.

In verses 12-13, the adulteress actively pursues her prey, attacking with flattery and easy availability. That’s just what we find with porn distributors, through pop-up ads and unsolicited emails, even through free game sites aimed at children—which lure them to click to sexually explicit pages intended to get them hooked as early as age 10.

In verse 21, the adulteress entices and seduces her prey. Pornography entices with lies that sound oh so good: “I am where life is found.” “Sex is a God-given need and right for every person.” “I offer you intimacy without responsibility to a flesh-and-blood person, intimacy without messy relationships.” Just as verse 23 assures us that the cost of succumbing to the adulteress’s wiles is one’s life, there is also a grave cost to porn use, much less addiction: it kills relationships with both God and people, and it drains away creativity and vitality. 

The key to overcoming? Pursuing greater intimacy with Christ over the fake intimacy of porn.

Discussion Questions

1. Do you need some resources for tackling a porn problem?

re:generation, Watermark’s Christ-centered recovery ministry, is an excellent, safe place to find grace and mercy (and a LOT of company) in fighting a porn addiction.

xxxChurch.com offers help and support for men, women, students, couples, parents, and spouses. Their X3 Watch accountability software for your phone and computer is excellent. Also consider Covenant Eyes. 

Women’s brains are being rewired by the visual aspect of the internet, but they still gravitate toward more relational interactions with people they can connect with. And they are at a far greater risk for meeting personally those they have met online, which is scary dangerous. If you need support in this area (including a confidential online community), check out Dirty Girls Ministry (Help, Hope & Healing for Women Struggling with Pornography & Sexual Addiction).

2. If you are caught in the snares of a porn addiction, be realistic in your expectations of what it will take to break free. It starts with daily accountability with a safe person, where you take responsibility for contacting your accountability partner. Consider Beth Moore’s Breaking Free Bible study workbook. Ask the Lord to lead you to a safe person who will work through the book with you. Isolation feeds shame, and shame keeps you in bondage.

3. Pornography feeds human sex trafficking, both by pushing the demand for more porn and because many of the people in porn videos are sex slaves. What can you do? There are lots of suggestions in this blog post by Dr. Sandra Glahn of Dallas Theological Seminary: http://blogs.bible.org/engage/sandra_glahn/eight_ways_your_ministry_can_fight_human_trafficking__