July 2, 2015

WARNING, WARNING, WARNING -- DO NOT BE SEDUCED; LISTEN TO WISDOM!

Proverbs 5–9

Kristen Kedersha
Thursday's Devo

July 2, 2015

Thursday's Devo

July 2, 2015

Central Truth

We can be easily seduced and enticed by many things in this world. In Proverbs we are warned, and Wisdom even calls out for us. We must listen and not ignore, so that we find life.

Key Verse | Proverbs 8:33, 35–36

"Listen to my instruction and be wise.
Don’t ignore it. . . .
For whoever finds me finds life
and receives favor from the Lord.
But those who miss me injure themselves.
All who hate me love death."
(Proverbs 8:33, 35-36)

Proverbs 5–9

Warning Against Adultery

My son, be attentive to my wisdom;
    incline your ear to my understanding,
that you may keep discretion,
    and your lips may guard knowledge.
For the lips of a forbidden 1 5:3 Hebrew strange; also verse 20 woman drip honey,
    and her speech 2 5:3 Hebrew palate is smoother than oil,
but in the end she is bitter as wormwood,
    sharp as a two-edged sword.
Her feet go down to death;
    her steps follow the path to 3 5:5 Hebrew lay hold of Sheol;
she does not ponder the path of life;
    her ways wander, and she does not know it.

And now, O sons, listen to me,
    and do not depart from the words of my mouth.
Keep your way far from her,
    and do not go near the door of her house,
lest you give your honor to others
    and your years to the merciless,
10  lest strangers take their fill of your strength,
    and your labors go to the house of a foreigner,
11  and at the end of your life you groan,
    when your flesh and body are consumed,
12  and you say, “How I hated discipline,
    and my heart despised reproof!
13  I did not listen to the voice of my teachers
    or incline my ear to my instructors.
14  I am at the brink of utter ruin
    in the assembled congregation.”

15  Drink water from your own cistern,
    flowing water from your own well.
16  Should your springs be scattered abroad,
    streams of water in the streets?
17  Let them be for yourself alone,
    and not for strangers with you.
18  Let your fountain be blessed,
    and rejoice in the wife of your youth,
19      a lovely deer, a graceful doe.
Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight;
    be intoxicated 4 5:19 Hebrew be led astray; also verse 20 always in her love.
20  Why should you be intoxicated, my son, with a forbidden woman
    and embrace the bosom of an adulteress? 5 5:20 Hebrew a foreign woman
21  For a man's ways are before the eyes of the LORD,
    and he ponders 6 5:21 Or makes level all his paths.
22  The iniquities of the wicked ensnare him,
    and he is held fast in the cords of his sin.
23  He dies for lack of discipline,
    and because of his great folly he is led astray.

Practical Warnings

My son, if you have put up security for your neighbor,
    have given your pledge for a stranger,
if you are snared in the words of your mouth,
    caught in the words of your mouth,
then do this, my son, and save yourself,
    for you have come into the hand of your neighbor:
    go, hasten, 7 6:3 Or humble yourself and plead urgently with your neighbor.
Give your eyes no sleep
    and your eyelids no slumber;
save yourself like a gazelle from the hand of the hunter, 8 6:5 Hebrew lacks of the hunter
    like a bird from the hand of the fowler.

Go to the ant, O sluggard;
    consider her ways, and be wise.
Without having any chief,
    officer, or ruler,
she prepares her bread in summer
    and gathers her food in harvest.
How long will you lie there, O sluggard?
    When will you arise from your sleep?
10  A little sleep, a little slumber,
    a little folding of the hands to rest,
11  and poverty will come upon you like a robber,
    and want like an armed man.

12  A worthless person, a wicked man,
    goes about with crooked speech,
13  winks with his eyes, signals 9 6:13 Hebrew scrapes with his feet,
    points with his finger,
14  with perverted heart devises evil,
    continually sowing discord;
15  therefore calamity will come upon him suddenly;
    in a moment he will be broken beyond healing.

16  There are six things that the LORD hates,
    seven that are an abomination to him:
17  haughty eyes, a lying tongue,
    and hands that shed innocent blood,
18  a heart that devises wicked plans,
    feet that make haste to run to evil,
19  a false witness who breathes out lies,
    and one who sows discord among brothers.

Warnings Against Adultery

20  My son, keep your father's commandment,
    and forsake not your mother's teaching.
21  Bind them on your heart always;
    tie them around your neck.
22  When you walk, they 10 6:22 Hebrew it; three times in this verse will lead you;
    when you lie down, they will watch over you;
    and when you awake, they will talk with you.
23  For the commandment is a lamp and the teaching a light,
    and the reproofs of discipline are the way of life,
24  to preserve you from the evil woman, 11 6:24 Revocalization (compare Septuagint) yields from the wife of a neighbor
    from the smooth tongue of the adulteress. 12 6:24 Hebrew the foreign woman
25  Do not desire her beauty in your heart,
    and do not let her capture you with her eyelashes;
26  for the price of a prostitute is only a loaf of bread, 13 6:26 Or (compare Septuagint, Syriac, Vulgate) for a prostitute leaves a man with nothing but a loaf of bread
    but a married woman 14 6:26 Hebrew a man's wife hunts down a precious life.
27  Can a man carry fire next to his chest
    and his clothes not be burned?
28  Or can one walk on hot coals
    and his feet not be scorched?
29  So is he who goes in to his neighbor's wife;
    none who touches her will go unpunished.
30  People do not despise a thief if he steals
    to satisfy his appetite when he is hungry,
31  but if he is caught, he will pay sevenfold;
    he will give all the goods of his house.
32  He who commits adultery lacks sense;
    he who does it destroys himself.
33  He will get wounds and dishonor,
    and his disgrace will not be wiped away.
34  For jealousy makes a man furious,
    and he will not spare when he takes revenge.
35  He will accept no compensation;
    he will refuse though you multiply gifts.

Warning Against the Adulteress

My son, keep my words
    and treasure up my commandments with you;
keep my commandments and live;
    keep my teaching as the apple of your eye;
bind them on your fingers;
    write them on the tablet of your heart.
Say to wisdom, “You are my sister,”
    and call insight your intimate friend,
to keep you from the forbidden 15 7:5 Hebrew strange woman,
    from the adulteress 16 7:5 Hebrew the foreign woman with her smooth words.

For at the window of my house
    I have looked out through my lattice,
and I have seen among the simple,
    I have perceived among the youths,
    a young man lacking sense,
passing along the street near her corner,
    taking the road to her house
in the twilight, in the evening,
    at the time of night and darkness.

10  And behold, the woman meets him,
    dressed as a prostitute, wily of heart. 17 7:10 Hebrew guarded in heart
11  She is loud and wayward;
    her feet do not stay at home;
12  now in the street, now in the market,
    and at every corner she lies in wait.
13  She seizes him and kisses him,
    and with bold face she says to him,
14  “I had to offer sacrifices, 18 7:14 Hebrew peace offerings
    and today I have paid my vows;
15  so now I have come out to meet you,
    to seek you eagerly, and I have found you.
16  I have spread my couch with coverings,
    colored linens from Egyptian linen;
17  I have perfumed my bed with myrrh,
    aloes, and cinnamon.
18  Come, let us take our fill of love till morning;
    let us delight ourselves with love.
19  For my husband is not at home;
    he has gone on a long journey;
20  he took a bag of money with him;
    at full moon he will come home.”

21  With much seductive speech she persuades him;
    with her smooth talk she compels him.
22  All at once he follows her,
    as an ox goes to the slaughter,
or as a stag is caught fast 19 7:22 Probable reading (compare Septuagint, Vulgate, Syriac); Hebrew as a chain to discipline a fool
23      till an arrow pierces its liver;
as a bird rushes into a snare;
    he does not know that it will cost him his life.

24  And now, O sons, listen to me,
    and be attentive to the words of my mouth.
25  Let not your heart turn aside to her ways;
    do not stray into her paths,
26  for many a victim has she laid low,
    and all her slain are a mighty throng.
27  Her house is the way to Sheol,
    going down to the chambers of death.

The Blessings of Wisdom

Does not wisdom call?
    Does not understanding raise her voice?
On the heights beside the way,
    at the crossroads she takes her stand;
beside the gates in front of the town,
    at the entrance of the portals she cries aloud:
“To you, O men, I call,
    and my cry is to the children of man.
O simple ones, learn prudence;
    O fools, learn sense.
Hear, for I will speak noble things,
    and from my lips will come what is right,
for my mouth will utter truth;
    wickedness is an abomination to my lips.
All the words of my mouth are righteous;
    there is nothing twisted or crooked in them.
They are all straight to him who understands,
    and right to those who find knowledge.
10  Take my instruction instead of silver,
    and knowledge rather than choice gold,
11  for wisdom is better than jewels,
    and all that you may desire cannot compare with her.

12  I, wisdom, dwell with prudence,
    and I find knowledge and discretion.
13  The fear of the LORD is hatred of evil.
Pride and arrogance and the way of evil
    and perverted speech I hate.
14  I have counsel and sound wisdom;
    I have insight; I have strength.
15  By me kings reign,
    and rulers decree what is just;
16  by me princes rule,
    and nobles, all who govern justly. 20 8:16 Most Hebrew manuscripts; many Hebrew manuscripts, Septuagint govern the earth
17  I love those who love me,
    and those who seek me diligently find me.
18  Riches and honor are with me,
    enduring wealth and righteousness.
19  My fruit is better than gold, even fine gold,
    and my yield than choice silver.
20  I walk in the way of righteousness,
    in the paths of justice,
21  granting an inheritance to those who love me,
    and filling their treasuries.

22  The LORD possessed 21 8:22 Or fathered; Septuagint created me at the beginning of his work, 22 8:22 Hebrew way
    the first of his acts of old.
23  Ages ago I was set up,
    at the first, before the beginning of the earth.
24  When there were no depths I was brought forth,
    when there were no springs abounding with water.
25  Before the mountains had been shaped,
    before the hills, I was brought forth,
26  before he had made the earth with its fields,
    or the first of the dust of the world.
27  When he established the heavens, I was there;
    when he drew a circle on the face of the deep,
28  when he made firm the skies above,
    when he established 23 8:28 The meaning of the Hebrew is uncertain the fountains of the deep,
29  when he assigned to the sea its limit,
    so that the waters might not transgress his command,
when he marked out the foundations of the earth,
30      then I was beside him, like a master workman,
and I was daily his 24 8:30 Or daily filled with delight,
    rejoicing before him always,
31  rejoicing in his inhabited world
    and delighting in the children of man.

32  And now, O sons, listen to me:
    blessed are those who keep my ways.
33  Hear instruction and be wise,
    and do not neglect it.
34  Blessed is the one who listens to me,
    watching daily at my gates,
    waiting beside my doors.
35  For whoever finds me finds life
    and obtains favor from the LORD,
36  but he who fails to find me injures himself;
    all who hate me love death.”

The Way of Wisdom

Wisdom has built her house;
    she has hewn her seven pillars.
She has slaughtered her beasts; she has mixed her wine;
    she has also set her table.
She has sent out her young women to call
    from the highest places in the town,
“Whoever is simple, let him turn in here!”
    To him who lacks sense she says,
“Come, eat of my bread
    and drink of the wine I have mixed.
Leave your simple ways, 25 9:6 Or Leave the company of the simple and live,
    and walk in the way of insight.”

Whoever corrects a scoffer gets himself abuse,
    and he who reproves a wicked man incurs injury.
Do not reprove a scoffer, or he will hate you;
    reprove a wise man, and he will love you.
Give instruction 26 9:9 Hebrew lacks instruction to a wise man, and he will be still wiser;
    teach a righteous man, and he will increase in learning.
10  The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom,
    and the knowledge of the Holy One is insight.
11  For by me your days will be multiplied,
    and years will be added to your life.
12  If you are wise, you are wise for yourself;
    if you scoff, you alone will bear it.

The Way of Folly

13  The woman Folly is loud;
    she is seductive 27 9:13 Or full of simpleness and knows nothing.
14  She sits at the door of her house;
    she takes a seat on the highest places of the town,
15  calling to those who pass by,
    who are going straight on their way,
16  “Whoever is simple, let him turn in here!”
    And to him who lacks sense she says,
17  “Stolen water is sweet,
    and bread eaten in secret is pleasant.”
18  But he does not know that the dead 28 9:18 Hebrew Rephaim are there,
    that her guests are in the depths of Sheol.

Footnotes

[1] 5:3 Hebrew strange; also verse 20
[2] 5:3 Hebrew palate
[3] 5:5 Hebrew lay hold of
[4] 5:19 Hebrew be led astray; also verse 20
[5] 5:20 Hebrew a foreign woman
[6] 5:21 Or makes level
[7] 6:3 Or humble yourself
[8] 6:5 Hebrew lacks of the hunter
[9] 6:13 Hebrew scrapes
[10] 6:22 Hebrew it; three times in this verse
[11] 6:24 Revocalization (compare Septuagint) yields from the wife of a neighbor
[12] 6:24 Hebrew the foreign woman
[13] 6:26 Or (compare Septuagint, Syriac, Vulgate) for a prostitute leaves a man with nothing but a loaf of bread
[14] 6:26 Hebrew a man's wife
[15] 7:5 Hebrew strange
[16] 7:5 Hebrew the foreign woman
[17] 7:10 Hebrew guarded in heart
[18] 7:14 Hebrew peace offerings
[19] 7:22 Probable reading (compare Septuagint, Vulgate, Syriac); Hebrew as a chain to discipline a fool
[20] 8:16 Most Hebrew manuscripts; many Hebrew manuscripts, Septuagint govern the earth
[21] 8:22 Or fathered; Septuagint created
[22] 8:22 Hebrew way
[23] 8:28 The meaning of the Hebrew is uncertain
[24] 8:30 Or daily filled with
[25] 9:6 Or Leave the company of the simple
[26] 9:9 Hebrew lacks instruction
[27] 9:13 Or full of simpleness
[28] 9:18 Hebrew Rephaim

Dive Deeper | Proverbs 5–9

Over and over in these proverbs, we hear the warnings: "Stay away from her" (Proverbs 5:8), "Don’t lust for her beauty" (6:25), and "Don’t let your hearts stray away toward her" (7:25). Solomon is telling us to flee temptation, specifically the seduction of another, or it will end poorly—as in, death (5:23, 6:26, 6:32).

Partially, I read this and think, "This doesn’t really apply to me." First, it’s written to men. Second, I’m happily married (to a marriage pastor), and I wouldn’t do any of these things. Then I am reminded I am only a few silly slippery choices away from being "seduced" (as this is pride). Here, we repeatedly read warnings about the adulterous woman. Seduced, however, could mean many things. It could mean adultery, but it could be any temptation that leads to sin and death, such as laziness, lust, gluttony, materialism—any of the things the Lord detests.

Yet, the Lord is gracious to offer an alternative that has existed since before time—WISDOM. She calls out to us; she wants us to have knowledge and discretion, sound judgment, understanding, and power (8:12-15). We can listen to Wisdom and find joy, favor, and life; or we can hate Wisdom and therefore chose death.

Whether man or woman, young or old, we must choose wisely. We must choose Wisdom, the wisdom only God can give, wisdom that gives life and has been here since before creation (8:22), not wisdom the world sells us. Typically, we don’t choose Wisdom in the moment of temptation; we must decide long before the opportunity or temptation is before us. In the moment of temptation, we want satisfaction—not advice, reason, or wisdom. We embrace Wisdom by spending time with God in His Word and with His people.

Through serving in the marriage ministry, I have the opportunity to see firsthand what seduction does to marriage, intimacy, friendships, and jobs. I’ve also seen the benefits of choosing to listen to and follow Wisdom. Don’t wander or be seduced—listen to Wisdom.

Discussion Questions

1. Would those around you say you have listened to Wisdom? As a follower of Christ, does the way you live life look different from the world? How do you model Wisdom to the world around you?

2. When have you let your heart stray and wander down a wayward path? When have you chosen instruction and knowledge and walked in righteousness and in paths of justice?

3. Where do you need to be proactive in choosing Wisdom? What entices you, and how can you arm yourself with Wisdom? (Proverbs 7:3-4)