February 8, 2013

JUST SAY NO!

Genesis 25

Anne Tamplin
Friday's Devo

February 8, 2013

Friday's Devo

February 8, 2013

Central Truth

Instant gratification is rarely a good thing. Just like jumping without looking below, crossing the street before glancing both ways, and selling your birthright for something to eat.

Key Verse | Genesis 25:30–33

[A]nd Esau said to Jacob, 'Please let me have a swallow of that red stuff there, for I am famished.' Therefore his name was called Edom. But Jacob said, 'First sell me your birthright.' Esau said, 'Behold, I am about to die; so of what use then is the birthright to me?' And Jacob said, 'First swear to me'; so he swore to him, and sold his birthright to Jacob. (Genesis 25:30-33)

Genesis 25

Abraham's Death and His Descendants

Abraham took another wife, whose name was Keturah. She bore him Zimran, Jokshan, Medan, Midian, Ishbak, and Shuah. Jokshan fathered Sheba and Dedan. The sons of Dedan were Asshurim, Letushim, and Leummim. The sons of Midian were Ephah, Epher, Hanoch, Abida, and Eldaah. All these were the children of Keturah. Abraham gave all he had to Isaac. But to the sons of his concubines Abraham gave gifts, and while he was still living he sent them away from his son Isaac, eastward to the east country.

These are the days of the years of Abraham's life, 175 years. Abraham breathed his last and died in a good old age, an old man and full of years, and was gathered to his people. Isaac and Ishmael his sons buried him in the cave of Machpelah, in the field of Ephron the son of Zohar the Hittite, east of Mamre, 10 the field that Abraham purchased from the Hittites. There Abraham was buried, with Sarah his wife. 11 After the death of Abraham, God blessed Isaac his son. And Isaac settled at Beer-lahai-roi.

12 These are the generations of Ishmael, Abraham's son, whom Hagar the Egyptian, Sarah's servant, bore to Abraham. 13 These are the names of the sons of Ishmael, named in the order of their birth: Nebaioth, the firstborn of Ishmael; and Kedar, Adbeel, Mibsam, 14 Mishma, Dumah, Massa, 15 Hadad, Tema, Jetur, Naphish, and Kedemah. 16 These are the sons of Ishmael and these are their names, by their villages and by their encampments, twelve princes according to their tribes. 17 (These are the years of the life of Ishmael: 137 years. He breathed his last and died, and was gathered to his people.) 18 They settled from Havilah to Shur, which is opposite Egypt in the direction of Assyria. He settled 1 25:18 Hebrew fell over against all his kinsmen.

The Birth of Esau and Jacob

19 These are the generations of Isaac, Abraham's son: Abraham fathered Isaac, 20 and Isaac was forty years old when he took Rebekah, the daughter of Bethuel the Aramean of Paddan-aram, the sister of Laban the Aramean, to be his wife. 21 And Isaac prayed to the LORD for his wife, because she was barren. And the LORD granted his prayer, and Rebekah his wife conceived. 22 The children struggled together within her, and she said, “If it is thus, why is this happening to me?” 2 25:22 Or why do I live? So she went to inquire of the LORD. 23 And the LORD said to her,

“Two nations are in your womb,
    and two peoples from within you 3 25:23 Or from birth shall be divided;
the one shall be stronger than the other,
    the older shall serve the younger.”

24 When her days to give birth were completed, behold, there were twins in her womb. 25 The first came out red, all his body like a hairy cloak, so they called his name Esau. 26 Afterward his brother came out with his hand holding Esau's heel, so his name was called Jacob. 4 25:26 Jacob means He takes by the heel, or He cheats Isaac was sixty years old when she bore them.

27 When the boys grew up, Esau was a skillful hunter, a man of the field, while Jacob was a quiet man, dwelling in tents. 28 Isaac loved Esau because he ate of his game, but Rebekah loved Jacob.

Esau Sells His Birthright

29 Once when Jacob was cooking stew, Esau came in from the field, and he was exhausted. 30 And Esau said to Jacob, “Let me eat some of that red stew, for I am exhausted!” (Therefore his name was called Edom. 5 25:30 Edom sounds like the Hebrew for red ) 31 Jacob said, “Sell me your birthright now.” 32 Esau said, “I am about to die; of what use is a birthright to me?” 33 Jacob said, “Swear to me now.” So he swore to him and sold his birthright to Jacob. 34 Then Jacob gave Esau bread and lentil stew, and he ate and drank and rose and went his way. Thus Esau despised his birthright.

Footnotes

[1] 25:18 Hebrew fell
[2] 25:22 Or why do I live?
[3] 25:23 Or from birth
[4] 25:26 Jacob means He takes by the heel, or He cheats
[5] 25:30 Edom sounds like the Hebrew for red

Dive Deeper | Genesis 25

I did not pick this passage. My thinking: This will be exciting! I wonder if God will really have a hand in the passage I am given. Genesis 25 it is!

I started reading . . . names . . . several long lists of names. Thinking, "hmmmm, not so much . . . ." I continued. Jacob and Esau! Hey! I remember this! And I have boys!

My wheels started turning: "Thanks, God! I know a little bit about boys!" I continued reading, refreshing my memory of the story, and I reached verse 29. I actually gasped, realizing God was not talking to me about boys. He was reminding me about instant gratification . . . my own intense struggle with instant gratification.

I hate the word NO. Growing up, debt was common, the answer NO was not. Then Tyler and I got married in college. Once again, debt was common, while the answer NO was not.

Sadly, the uncommon answer of NO does not stop there. I struggle with saying NO to myself. Or maybe I will say NO, but I do not really mean it, especially if I really want it (whatever it is).

One of the (several) areas in which I struggle with instant gratification is with sweets. I often have to ask my boys to hide cookies and other sweets before I eat every single one of them. (Problem: I usually do not ask for help until I have eaten at least one too many.) I catch myself thinking, God does not care how many cookies I eat, and He certainly does not care how much I weigh!

And then I remember two things: One, it is not about the cookies; it is about self-control (Proverbs 25:27-28). And two, my health does matter to Him (1 Corinthians 6:19).

Stopping to ask the Holy Spirit to take control of my fleshly desires is the place to start. When my mind enters this battlefield, I have to ask the Holy Spirit to quiet my willfulness and actually allow Him to take control (see Romans 8). Side note: I do not have any trouble saying (and meaning!) NO to my boys. Instant gratification is a character trait that will not be passed along!

Discussion Questions

1. Have you ever wanted something so badly that you said, "I would do anything to have (fill in the blank)?" What was it, and why did it seem so important?

2. Have you ever received something you "had to have" only to regret it later? What was it? At what point did you realize the regret?

3. When was a time you paused before giving in to temptation, asked the Holy Spirit to intervene, and were rewarded with the outcome?