February 6, 2023
Big Idea
We can trust God when we don't know how things will turn out.
And in the morning, behold, it was Leah! And Jacob said to Laban, "What is this you have done to me? Did I not serve with you for Rachel? Why then have you deceived me?"
1 Then Jacob went on his journey and came to the land of the people of the east. 2 As he looked, he saw a well in the field, and behold, three flocks of sheep lying beside it, for out of that well the flocks were watered. The stone on the well's mouth was large, 3 and when all the flocks were gathered there, the shepherds would roll the stone from the mouth of the well and water the sheep, and put the stone back in its place over the mouth of the well.
4 Jacob said to them, “My brothers, where do you come from?” They said, “We are from Haran.” 5 He said to them, “Do you know Laban the son of Nahor?” They said, “We know him.” 6 He said to them, “Is it well with him?” They said, “It is well; and see, Rachel his daughter is coming with the sheep!” 7 He said, “Behold, it is still high day; it is not time for the livestock to be gathered together. Water the sheep and go, pasture them.” 8 But they said, “We cannot until all the flocks are gathered together and the stone is rolled from the mouth of the well; then we water the sheep.”
9 While he was still speaking with them, Rachel came with her father's sheep, for she was a shepherdess. 10 Now as soon as Jacob saw Rachel the daughter of Laban his mother's brother, and the sheep of Laban his mother's brother, Jacob came near and rolled the stone from the well's mouth and watered the flock of Laban his mother's brother. 11 Then Jacob kissed Rachel and wept aloud. 12 And Jacob told Rachel that he was her father's kinsman, and that he was Rebekah's son, and she ran and told her father.
13 As soon as Laban heard the news about Jacob, his sister's son, he ran to meet him and embraced him and kissed him and brought him to his house. Jacob told Laban all these things, 14 and Laban said to him, “Surely you are my bone and my flesh!” And he stayed with him a month.
15 Then Laban said to Jacob, “Because you are my kinsman, should you therefore serve me for nothing? Tell me, what shall your wages be?” 16 Now Laban had two daughters. The name of the older was Leah, and the name of the younger was Rachel. 17 Leah's eyes were weak, 1 29:17 Or soft but Rachel was beautiful in form and appearance. 18 Jacob loved Rachel. And he said, “I will serve you seven years for your younger daughter Rachel.” 19 Laban said, “It is better that I give her to you than that I should give her to any other man; stay with me.” 20 So Jacob served seven years for Rachel, and they seemed to him but a few days because of the love he had for her.
21 Then Jacob said to Laban, “Give me my wife that I may go in to her, for my time is completed.” 22 So Laban gathered together all the people of the place and made a feast. 23 But in the evening he took his daughter Leah and brought her to Jacob, and he went in to her. 24 (Laban gave 2 29:24 Or had given; also verse 29 his female servant Zilpah to his daughter Leah to be her servant.) 25 And in the morning, behold, it was Leah! And Jacob said to Laban, “What is this you have done to me? Did I not serve with you for Rachel? Why then have you deceived me?” 26 Laban said, “It is not so done in our country, to give the younger before the firstborn. 27 Complete the week of this one, and we will give you the other also in return for serving me another seven years.” 28 Jacob did so, and completed her week. Then Laban gave him his daughter Rachel to be his wife. 29 (Laban gave his female servant Bilhah to his daughter Rachel to be her servant.) 30 So Jacob went in to Rachel also, and he loved Rachel more than Leah, and served Laban for another seven years.
31 When the LORD saw that Leah was hated, he opened her womb, but Rachel was barren. 32 And Leah conceived and bore a son, and she called his name Reuben, 3 29:32 Reuben means See, a son for she said, “Because the LORD has looked upon my affliction; for now my husband will love me.” 33 She conceived again and bore a son, and said, “Because the LORD has heard that I am hated, he has given me this son also.” And she called his name Simeon. 4 29:33 Simeon sounds like the Hebrew for heard 34 Again she conceived and bore a son, and said, “Now this time my husband will be attached to me, because I have borne him three sons.” Therefore his name was called Levi. 5 29:34 Levi sounds like the Hebrew for attached 35 And she conceived again and bore a son, and said, “This time I will praise the LORD.” Therefore she called his name Judah. 6 29:35 Judah sounds like the Hebrew for praise Then she ceased bearing.
What was the last thing you put your heart into only to be disappointed by the outcome? How did you respond? For me, my last disappointment was not being selected to referee a football championship. If you have been around me long enough, you know I love officiating enough to spend hundreds of hours a year for the rare opportunity to work a championship. When my opportunity finally came and I wasn't selected, I was extremely disappointed. However, I never took a moment to seek God or wonder if He might be refining my heart.
Years later, I can see that God may have been trying to show me that my quest for a championship while neglecting my relationships with friends and family had become an idol. My setback helped me realize that God isn't going to love me any more or any less for achieving a championship, but He does care that "whatever you do, do all to the glory of God." (1 Corinthians 10:31) Do you think Jacob considered that God may have been using Laban's wedding deception to discipline Jacob for deceiving his father and stealing his brother Esau's blessing? Did his desire for Rachel distract him from considering that God may be sanctifying him?
God is a loving Father who will discipline us even if we don't immediately see it: "[B]ut he disciplines us for our good, that we may share his holiness. For the moment all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it." (Hebrews 12:10-11) The next time you are disappointed or experience a setback, don't forget to turn to God. Remember He is in control and you may ask Him for help. The answer you receive may just be that He is being a perfect Father, disciplining you so that you may later yield the peaceful fruit of righteousness.
This month's memory verse
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Whoever walks in integrity walks securely,
but he who makes his ways crooked will be found out.
1. What was the last thing you put your heart into only to be disappointed about the outcome? Did you seek God? Why or why not?
2. Are there currently any desires you have for your life you are putting above God's desires for your life? Will you confess it to someone?
3. Do you believe that God has disciplined you? What did that look like for you?
4. How will you be able to recognize the next time God is discipling you?
5. When you are disappointed, what practical things can you do to turn to God?
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