February 10, 2023

Pray, especially when afraid

Genesis 32

Laura Schwartz
Friday's Devo

February 10, 2023

Friday's Devo

February 10, 2023

Big Idea

We can trust God when we don't know how things will turn out.

Key Verse | Genesis 32:11

Please deliver me from the hand of my brother, from the hand of Esau, for I fear him, that he may come and attack me, the mothers with the children.

Genesis 32

Jacob Fears Esau

Jacob went on his way, and the angels of God met him. And when Jacob saw them he said, “This is God's camp!” So he called the name of that place Mahanaim. 1 32:2 Mahanaim means two camps

And Jacob sent 2 32:3 Or had sent messengers before him to Esau his brother in the land of Seir, the country of Edom, instructing them, “Thus you shall say to my lord Esau: Thus says your servant Jacob, ‘I have sojourned with Laban and stayed until now. I have oxen, donkeys, flocks, male servants, and female servants. I have sent to tell my lord, in order that I may find favor in your sight.’”

And the messengers returned to Jacob, saying, “We came to your brother Esau, and he is coming to meet you, and there are four hundred men with him.” Then Jacob was greatly afraid and distressed. He divided the people who were with him, and the flocks and herds and camels, into two camps, thinking, “If Esau comes to the one camp and attacks it, then the camp that is left will escape.”

And Jacob said, “O God of my father Abraham and God of my father Isaac, O LORD who said to me, ‘Return to your country and to your kindred, that I may do you good,’ 10 I am not worthy of the least of all the deeds of steadfast love and all the faithfulness that you have shown to your servant, for with only my staff I crossed this Jordan, and now I have become two camps. 11 Please deliver me from the hand of my brother, from the hand of Esau, for I fear him, that he may come and attack me, the mothers with the children. 12 But you said, ‘I will surely do you good, and make your offspring as the sand of the sea, which cannot be numbered for multitude.’”

13 So he stayed there that night, and from what he had with him he took a present for his brother Esau, 14 two hundred female goats and twenty male goats, two hundred ewes and twenty rams, 15 thirty milking camels and their calves, forty cows and ten bulls, twenty female donkeys and ten male donkeys. 16 These he handed over to his servants, every drove by itself, and said to his servants, “Pass on ahead of me and put a space between drove and drove.” 17 He instructed the first, “When Esau my brother meets you and asks you, ‘To whom do you belong? Where are you going? And whose are these ahead of you?’ 18 then you shall say, ‘They belong to your servant Jacob. They are a present sent to my lord Esau. And moreover, he is behind us.’” 19 He likewise instructed the second and the third and all who followed the droves, “You shall say the same thing to Esau when you find him, 20 and you shall say, ‘Moreover, your servant Jacob is behind us.’” For he thought, “I may appease him 3 32:20 Hebrew appease his face with the present that goes ahead of me, and afterward I shall see his face. Perhaps he will accept me.” 4 32:20 Hebrew he will lift my face 21 So the present passed on ahead of him, and he himself stayed that night in the camp.

Jacob Wrestles with God

22 The same night he arose and took his two wives, his two female servants, and his eleven children, 5 32:22 Or sons and crossed the ford of the Jabbok. 23 He took them and sent them across the stream, and everything else that he had. 24 And Jacob was left alone. And a man wrestled with him until the breaking of the day. 25 When the man saw that he did not prevail against Jacob, he touched his hip socket, and Jacob's hip was put out of joint as he wrestled with him. 26 Then he said, “Let me go, for the day has broken.” But Jacob said, “I will not let you go unless you bless me.” 27 And he said to him, “What is your name?” And he said, “Jacob.” 28 Then he said, “Your name shall no longer be called Jacob, but Israel, 6 32:28 Israel means He strives with God, or God strives for you have striven with God and with men, and have prevailed.” 29 Then Jacob asked him, “Please tell me your name.” But he said, “Why is it that you ask my name?” And there he blessed him. 30 So Jacob called the name of the place Peniel, 7 32:30 Peniel means the face of God saying, “For I have seen God face to face, and yet my life has been delivered.” 31 The sun rose upon him as he passed Penuel, limping because of his hip. 32 Therefore to this day the people of Israel do not eat the sinew of the thigh that is on the hip socket, because he touched the socket of Jacob's hip on the sinew of the thigh.

Footnotes

[1] 32:2 Mahanaim means two camps
[2] 32:3 Or had sent
[3] 32:20 Hebrew appease his face
[4] 32:20 Hebrew he will lift my face
[5] 32:22 Or sons
[6] 32:28 Israel means He strives with God, or God strives
[7] 32:30 Peniel means the face of God

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Dive Deeper | Genesis 32

Before we talk about what's happening in today's passage, we need to travel back a few chapters.

Remember in Genesis 27:1–28:7: Jacob takes from Esau his birthright as the firstborn and later cheats Esau out of his blessing from their father Isaac. This makes Esau so furious that he wants to kill Jacob. And Jacob, fearful for his life, flees to Laban, a distant relative, and seeks refuge in Haran. Now fast forward about 20 years, and Genesis 32 begins with Jacob on his journey back to the land of his fathers (Genesis 31:3) as God commanded him. But on his journey home, Jacob finds himself headed toward an approaching Esau, who had 400 men with him.

Fearful of what will happen, Jacob takes action. We see him attempt to pacify Esau with gifts, place physical barriers between himself and the approaching men, and even divide up his family and possessions in the hopes that, if an attack occurs, some may be spared. It is only as Jacob exhausts his own strength and realizes there's nothing more he can do about the situation that he turns to prayer and brings his fears to God.

But just as fear wasn't the end of Jacob's story, it's also not the end of ours.

Jacob's honest prayer before the Lord from his place of fear serves as an important reminder for us when we are in our own place of fear. Prayer should be a Christian's first line of defense, no matter what the situation we find ourselves in. Both now and in the years to come, we are not a people without hope.

Let this story be a reminder to us that when we depend upon on own strength, we are tragically unqualified to deliver ourselves. But when we bring our fears to God in prayers saturated with gratitude, acknowledgment of Him, and earnest requests for His help, as Jacob did, we replace our fear in uncertain situations with hope in our eternally sovereign God. Hope that reminds us there is a God who sees us and can offer peace even in the darkest of situations, if we would just come to Him.

This month's memory verse

Whoever walks in integrity walks securely,
    but he who makes his ways crooked will be found out.

– Proverbs 10:9

Discussion Questions

1. Passages like Isaiah 41:10, 1 Peter 5:7, and many others, offer us hope when we find ourselves in fearful and stressful situations. In your own life, are you fearful when you are not in control, or do you find yourself trusting that the Lord will provide a way? Spend some time praying today and ask God to reveal if there are any areas in your life in which fear seems to be robbing you of joy. Then ask for His help.

2. It's likely Jacob knew on his journey home that he might cross paths with Esau. We see Jacob returning home not necessarily because he wants to, but because God is calling him to. His faith is demonstrated through his obedience to respond to God's command. Are you living a life marked by obedient faith? Where else might God be calling you to, but out of fear about the outcome you find yourself hesitant to go?

3. Jacob's struggle with Esau may have been what prompted Jacob's wrestling with God in Genesis 32:22-30. With that in mind, what do you think was God's purpose in allowing Jacob's trial? What can you learn from this story to help you see how God is working in your own trials and how you should respond to them?

4. After Jacob's wrestling match, he walks away with a limp, a physical reminder of his encounter with God. Are there any areas in your own life that were once marked by self-sufficiency and independence from God, but now you walk differently because of your encounter with Him? What can you do to remind yourself that you walk differently because of Him?

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Hugh Stephenson

GM Laura! Great devo with a ton of great reminders. Q1. The natural path for me is to trust the LORD, at least until I get scared enough to grab control. When it’s impossible to have control it’s easier not to :) Q2. Another AHA question. I am confident God is calling me to retirement. But on his plan and timetable, not mine. Q3. See below. Q4. Materialism was my faith. Mainly in myself to provide. Addictions were a salve before I got salvation. In the passage I’m centered on the wrestling match. I see Jacob’s prayer as an important preamble. It’s his first recorded prayer that leads to God’s 3rd revelation. It’s also the first time he prays to “Yahweh”. Please listen to Keller’s sermon on this passage. 39 minutes but worth every bit. http://podcast.gospelinlife.com/e/jacob-s-prayer-for-joy/
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Hugh Stephenson

Summarizing - Keller notes that encounters with God have three elements 1. You go to Him alone 2. You go to Him for blessing 3. You go to Him in weakness I might add that most of us don’t go to him first. Jacob certainly did not. Jacob was 97. Nor did I. I was 55. Being alone, I have no cultural basis to relate to Him. It’s either a personal relationship or none. Amy and I were great cultural Christians. Desiring control, playing loose with sin, living for the world’s approval. What happened? We discovered what Jacob discovered-
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Hugh Stephenson

Having everything the world offered left us wanting. Having a deeply saving and surrendered faith left us wanting nothing else. There was nothing quiet or peaceful about the change. It was a time of total insanity with addiction, fights, prodigal children, police officers, lawyers etc. Were we wrestling with God? I’d say yes. And even more- the battle in the spiritual realm had burst into our real life. We and our children were the prey. And we had no armor, (Ephesians 6:10-20). Like Jacob, eventually we saw that God was the only one in control. What was His blessing to us? Teaching us who He really is and who we really are. Even more, how we should “walk” with Him. Now, my 65-year-old bones, and yes, my hip, gives me somewhat of a physical limp. But the spiritual limp is gone forever.
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Michael Sisson

Re: Gen 32:3 Esau is the father of the Edomites (a.k.a. Mt. Seir; Gen 36:8-9). Edom is considered the perennial enemy of Israel. Today, Judaism associates Edom with Rome and (to our shame) Christianity. Re: Gen 32:10 In a plain reading of the verse, Jacob mentions a literal staff. However, Scripture frequently has layers of meaning. Jacob’s staff may also allude to the authority of that upon which he leans and depends. Spiritually speaking, the “staff of Jacob” is the Hope of Israel and ultimately hints at the “Seed of Abraham”…the promised Messiah. See Gen 49:10; Ps 23:4; Heb 11:21 Re: Gen 32:31 “…the Hebrew verb ‘pasach’ (פָּסַח) can mean not only "to pass over," but also "to limp…." — Hebrew For Christians For more on the relationship between “to limp” and “Passover,” see the following articles on the Suffering Servant Messiah Who was “bruised on His heel.” (Gen 3:15) http://www.hebrew4christians.com/Holidays/Spring_Holidays/Pesach/Limping_Messiah/limping_messiah.html Re: Gen 32:32 Today, the sciatic nerve is “treif” (Eng “unclean;” e.g. an observant Jew could not eat most beef tenderloin found in U.S. butcher shops, unless special care has been taken to remove the sciatic nerve).
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Sue Bohlin

Super devo, Laura, thank you! This is one of my favorite chapters in the entire Bible. First, because we get a front row seat to Jacob coming to the end of himself and trusting in Yahweh. His prayer is just a magnificent display of spiritual surrender and trust. As I read it again this morning, I was reminded of the huge blessing of being part of re:generation, our biblical recovery ministry, where we get a front row seat to seeing Jesus change people's lives forever. He brings healing and beauty to so much pain and brokenness! But it's the second reason that I love love love this story of Jacob wrestling with God. Since I was paralyzed by polio as an infant, getting about 30% of my muscles back in my left leg, I have walked with a very noticeable limp every step of my life. It was the source of great shame and embarrassment, especially as a little girl. Several years ago, the Lord nudged me gently and said in my spirit, "Did you notice the souvenir I gave Jacob after our wrestling match? I gave him a limp, and everyone who watched him walk for the rest of his life knew that I had touched him. It was a holy limp." And I realized that He had allowed polio to touch me in a similar fashion, also leaving ME with the "souvenir" of a limp. It was a healing moment for me, when the Lord transformed my shame into a new awareness that He had given me a holy limp too. . . . But He wasn't finished. After having a chunk of my cancer-poisoned tongue cut out, which is still swollen and healing, I have a new "limp" in my speech, at least for these months while I recover on my way to my new normal. I have sensed the Lord nudge me again: "OK, I showed you that you can glorify Me through the limp of your gait. Do you trust Me to glorify Myself through the limp of your speech?" I do! I have to repeatedly release the tendency to feel ashamed of how my speech is impaired--it sounds like I am talking with a cough drop in my mouth--choosing to let go of the shame and trust God with my new holy limp, the same way Jacob did. HE can figure out how to bring glory to Himself through it. He's good at that.
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Michael Scaman

God sends a camp of angels, an encouraged Jacob reaches out to Esau. As Jacob waits the wrestling of concern turns to a real fight not with Esau but with God. The 'man' Jacob wrestled dislocated his hip with just a touch at dawn. Clearly the ;'man' could do massive damage to Jacob but Jacob fought on and for what. Jacob wrestles on anyway. The struggle for his life was a blessing and he asks for and got it. "You have struggled with God and man and have prevailed" so your name is Israel. Then God sent Jacob limping off toward his dangerous brother, now softened by the sight of his nephews and sisters in law. As John Piper said 'God never sends His people into a fair fight' God chooses us and gives us blessings in one sense and we wrestle for them in another. Both a gift and a fight.
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Linda Green

Love this passage- the Bible sure doesn’t sugarcoat its “heroes”. So here is my take on Genesis 32:22-32 - see what you think: This passage never made sense to me until I began to see Jacob was trying to run away, like he had run from Esau so many years before. He had sent all of his family across the river (verse 23) “…and he was alone” (verse 24). God knew Jacob’s heart. He mercifully sent the man to wrestle with Jacob all night to keep Jacob from fleeing. Verse 25- “And when the man saw that he did not prevail against Jacob,” -the man saw Jacob was still determined to go his own way- he crippled Jacob so Jacob would not be able to run. Then it says the sun had risen- Jacob could no longer sneak away in the dark. Jacob had a very important role to play in his family and the coming of Messiah- Jacob had to stay to fulfill his destiny. I have tried to run away from God. But God, in His great mercy, has kept Me from my own destruction.
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Amy Lowther

1. I trust the Lord will provide a way. Prayer: God, thank for your love and fir your goodness. I ask you that if I am fearing anything in life which robs me af joy in life please show it to me. Please guide me to handle things your way, Amen. 2. I live a life marked by obedient faith. God is calling me to a new job but it’s going to be new without my old job. 3. God wanted Jacob to have better order and value in his life and for himself.. God wants each of us to be true to the gifts he has given us. If we respond to trials using God’s gifts, things should be ok. 4. None at this time. I can read the Bible to remind myself I walk differently because of Him.