February 10, 2023
Big Idea
We can trust God when we don't know how things will turn out.
Please deliver me from the hand of my brother, from the hand of Esau, for I fear him, that he may come and attack me, the mothers with the children.
1 Jacob went on his way, and the angels of God met him. 2 And when Jacob saw them he said, “This is God's camp!” So he called the name of that place Mahanaim. 1 32:2 Mahanaim means two camps
3 And Jacob sent 2 32:3 Or had sent messengers before him to Esau his brother in the land of Seir, the country of Edom, 4 instructing them, “Thus you shall say to my lord Esau: Thus says your servant Jacob, ‘I have sojourned with Laban and stayed until now. 5 I have oxen, donkeys, flocks, male servants, and female servants. I have sent to tell my lord, in order that I may find favor in your sight.’”
6 And the messengers returned to Jacob, saying, “We came to your brother Esau, and he is coming to meet you, and there are four hundred men with him.” 7 Then Jacob was greatly afraid and distressed. He divided the people who were with him, and the flocks and herds and camels, into two camps, 8 thinking, “If Esau comes to the one camp and attacks it, then the camp that is left will escape.”
9 And Jacob said, “O God of my father Abraham and God of my father Isaac, O LORD who said to me, ‘Return to your country and to your kindred, that I may do you good,’ 10 I am not worthy of the least of all the deeds of steadfast love and all the faithfulness that you have shown to your servant, for with only my staff I crossed this Jordan, and now I have become two camps. 11 Please deliver me from the hand of my brother, from the hand of Esau, for I fear him, that he may come and attack me, the mothers with the children. 12 But you said, ‘I will surely do you good, and make your offspring as the sand of the sea, which cannot be numbered for multitude.’”
13 So he stayed there that night, and from what he had with him he took a present for his brother Esau, 14 two hundred female goats and twenty male goats, two hundred ewes and twenty rams, 15 thirty milking camels and their calves, forty cows and ten bulls, twenty female donkeys and ten male donkeys. 16 These he handed over to his servants, every drove by itself, and said to his servants, “Pass on ahead of me and put a space between drove and drove.” 17 He instructed the first, “When Esau my brother meets you and asks you, ‘To whom do you belong? Where are you going? And whose are these ahead of you?’ 18 then you shall say, ‘They belong to your servant Jacob. They are a present sent to my lord Esau. And moreover, he is behind us.’” 19 He likewise instructed the second and the third and all who followed the droves, “You shall say the same thing to Esau when you find him, 20 and you shall say, ‘Moreover, your servant Jacob is behind us.’” For he thought, “I may appease him 3 32:20 Hebrew appease his face with the present that goes ahead of me, and afterward I shall see his face. Perhaps he will accept me.” 4 32:20 Hebrew he will lift my face 21 So the present passed on ahead of him, and he himself stayed that night in the camp.
22 The same night he arose and took his two wives, his two female servants, and his eleven children, 5 32:22 Or sons and crossed the ford of the Jabbok. 23 He took them and sent them across the stream, and everything else that he had. 24 And Jacob was left alone. And a man wrestled with him until the breaking of the day. 25 When the man saw that he did not prevail against Jacob, he touched his hip socket, and Jacob's hip was put out of joint as he wrestled with him. 26 Then he said, “Let me go, for the day has broken.” But Jacob said, “I will not let you go unless you bless me.” 27 And he said to him, “What is your name?” And he said, “Jacob.” 28 Then he said, “Your name shall no longer be called Jacob, but Israel, 6 32:28 Israel means He strives with God, or God strives for you have striven with God and with men, and have prevailed.” 29 Then Jacob asked him, “Please tell me your name.” But he said, “Why is it that you ask my name?” And there he blessed him. 30 So Jacob called the name of the place Peniel, 7 32:30 Peniel means the face of God saying, “For I have seen God face to face, and yet my life has been delivered.” 31 The sun rose upon him as he passed Penuel, limping because of his hip. 32 Therefore to this day the people of Israel do not eat the sinew of the thigh that is on the hip socket, because he touched the socket of Jacob's hip on the sinew of the thigh.
Before we talk about what's happening in today's passage, we need to travel back a few chapters.
Remember in Genesis 27:1–28:7: Jacob takes from Esau his birthright as the firstborn and later cheats Esau out of his blessing from their father Isaac. This makes Esau so furious that he wants to kill Jacob. And Jacob, fearful for his life, flees to Laban, a distant relative, and seeks refuge in Haran. Now fast forward about 20 years, and Genesis 32 begins with Jacob on his journey back to the land of his fathers (Genesis 31:3) as God commanded him. But on his journey home, Jacob finds himself headed toward an approaching Esau, who had 400 men with him.
Fearful of what will happen, Jacob takes action. We see him attempt to pacify Esau with gifts, place physical barriers between himself and the approaching men, and even divide up his family and possessions in the hopes that, if an attack occurs, some may be spared. It is only as Jacob exhausts his own strength and realizes there's nothing more he can do about the situation that he turns to prayer and brings his fears to God.
But just as fear wasn't the end of Jacob's story, it's also not the end of ours.
Jacob's honest prayer before the Lord from his place of fear serves as an important reminder for us when we are in our own place of fear. Prayer should be a Christian's first line of defense, no matter what the situation we find ourselves in. Both now and in the years to come, we are not a people without hope.
Let this story be a reminder to us that when we depend upon on own strength, we are tragically unqualified to deliver ourselves. But when we bring our fears to God in prayers saturated with gratitude, acknowledgment of Him, and earnest requests for His help, as Jacob did, we replace our fear in uncertain situations with hope in our eternally sovereign God. Hope that reminds us there is a God who sees us and can offer peace even in the darkest of situations, if we would just come to Him.
This month's memory verse
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Whoever walks in integrity walks securely,
but he who makes his ways crooked will be found out.
1. Passages like Isaiah 41:10, 1 Peter 5:7, and many others, offer us hope when we find ourselves in fearful and stressful situations. In your own life, are you fearful when you are not in control, or do you find yourself trusting that the Lord will provide a way? Spend some time praying today and ask God to reveal if there are any areas in your life in which fear seems to be robbing you of joy. Then ask for His help.
2. It's likely Jacob knew on his journey home that he might cross paths with Esau. We see Jacob returning home not necessarily because he wants to, but because God is calling him to. His faith is demonstrated through his obedience to respond to God's command. Are you living a life marked by obedient faith? Where else might God be calling you to, but out of fear about the outcome you find yourself hesitant to go?
3. Jacob's struggle with Esau may have been what prompted Jacob's wrestling with God in Genesis 32:22-30. With that in mind, what do you think was God's purpose in allowing Jacob's trial? What can you learn from this story to help you see how God is working in your own trials and how you should respond to them?
4. After Jacob's wrestling match, he walks away with a limp, a physical reminder of his encounter with God. Are there any areas in your own life that were once marked by self-sufficiency and independence from God, but now you walk differently because of your encounter with Him? What can you do to remind yourself that you walk differently because of Him?
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