March 3, 2023
Big Idea
We can trust God when we don't know how things will turn out.
"As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to bring it about that many people should be kept alive, as they are today. So do not fear; I will provide for you and your little ones." Thus he comforted them and spoke kindly to them.
1 Then Joseph fell on his father's face and wept over him and kissed him. 2 And Joseph commanded his servants the physicians to embalm his father. So the physicians embalmed Israel. 3 Forty days were required for it, for that is how many are required for embalming. And the Egyptians wept for him seventy days.
4 And when the days of weeping for him were past, Joseph spoke to the household of Pharaoh, saying, “If now I have found favor in your eyes, please speak in the ears of Pharaoh, saying, 5 ‘My father made me swear, saying, “I am about to die: in my tomb that I hewed out for myself in the land of Canaan, there shall you bury me.” Now therefore, let me please go up and bury my father. Then I will return.’” 6 And Pharaoh answered, “Go up, and bury your father, as he made you swear.” 7 So Joseph went up to bury his father. With him went up all the servants of Pharaoh, the elders of his household, and all the elders of the land of Egypt, 8 as well as all the household of Joseph, his brothers, and his father's household. Only their children, their flocks, and their herds were left in the land of Goshen. 9 And there went up with him both chariots and horsemen. It was a very great company. 10 When they came to the threshing floor of Atad, which is beyond the Jordan, they lamented there with a very great and grievous lamentation, and he made a mourning for his father seven days. 11 When the inhabitants of the land, the Canaanites, saw the mourning on the threshing floor of Atad, they said, “This is a grievous mourning by the Egyptians.” Therefore the place was named Abel-mizraim; 1 50:11 Abel-mizraim means mourning (or meadow) of Egypt it is beyond the Jordan. 12 Thus his sons did for him as he had commanded them, 13 for his sons carried him to the land of Canaan and buried him in the cave of the field at Machpelah, to the east of Mamre, which Abraham bought with the field from Ephron the Hittite to possess as a burying place. 14 After he had buried his father, Joseph returned to Egypt with his brothers and all who had gone up with him to bury his father.
15 When Joseph's brothers saw that their father was dead, they said, “It may be that Joseph will hate us and pay us back for all the evil that we did to him.” 16 So they sent a message to Joseph, saying, “Your father gave this command before he died: 17 ‘Say to Joseph, “Please forgive the transgression of your brothers and their sin, because they did evil to you.”’ And now, please forgive the transgression of the servants of the God of your father.” Joseph wept when they spoke to him. 18 His brothers also came and fell down before him and said, “Behold, we are your servants.” 19 But Joseph said to them, “Do not fear, for am I in the place of God? 20 As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to bring it about that many people 2 50:20 Or a numerous people should be kept alive, as they are today. 21 So do not fear; I will provide for you and your little ones.” Thus he comforted them and spoke kindly to them.
22 So Joseph remained in Egypt, he and his father's house. Joseph lived 110 years. 23 And Joseph saw Ephraim's children of the third generation. The children also of Machir the son of Manasseh were counted as Joseph's own. 3 50:23 Hebrew were born on Joseph's knees 24 And Joseph said to his brothers, “I am about to die, but God will visit you and bring you up out of this land to the land that he swore to Abraham, to Isaac, and to Jacob.” 25 Then Joseph made the sons of Israel swear, saying, “God will surely visit you, and you shall carry up my bones from here.” 26 So Joseph died, being 110 years old. They embalmed him, and he was put in a coffin in Egypt.
Early on in my faith, I struggled with verses like this. I grew up under a tremendous amount of physical and emotional abuse. In not knowing how to process the pain and distress of these things, I turned to drugs, alcohol, and violence. That lifestyle lasted until I was 33 years old. During these years of chaos, I occasionally heard about God’s love for me and what Jesus did to free me from that life of destruction. Yet, love and hope are difficult things to see in the midst of pain. I would say things like, "If God loves me, then how could He let these things happen to me?"
Joseph's response to his abusive brothers came after years of seeing God turn people's evil into good. When his brothers plotted evil against him and threw him into the pit, he begged them not to do it (Genesis 42:21). I imagine he was feeling deep emotional pain and fear. He didn't stop in the middle of it and trust that God would make something good of it, and it is unrealistic to expect this of ourselves or others. I think we read a verse like this and struggle to believe it because we are still too close to the pain. Just like Joseph, we need to continue pressing on in our lives, trusting God to make good of the evil that comes our way. The sin committed against him took away his home, family, freedom, and choices; but he stayed faithful to God and made the most of the opportunities God gave him.
Eleven years into my faith, I can now look back and see the good God has made of my broken past. Today, I am a minister to the homeless and addicted. The same experiences that were "meant for evil" and caused pain and destruction in my life now inspire hope and encouragement to many people. If you have been through difficult things, take heart and keep the faith, because "we know that for those who love God all things work together for good" (Romans 8:28).
This month's memory verse
27 Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.
1. What evil have people done against you? It's important to identify these wrongs.
2. How have you seen God turn it into good? If you haven't seen it yet, how can you press on in faith trusting that He will?
3. In what areas do you need to offer forgiveness to those who have harmed you? If you haven't yet, consider two things. First, just as in Joseph's case, forgiveness can take time. Second, we are encouraged to "[b]e kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you." (Ephesians 4:32) We have the advantage of understanding Christ's forgiveness of our sin, allowing us to offer forgiveness to others.
4. How can you use your past hurts to help others today? Some of the ugliest things, like the crucifixion, can be turned into the most beautiful news: our forgiveness and salvation. What if the ugliness of your past can be the beautiful hope for another? God did not cause your pain any more than He caused Joseph's, but He can use it similarly to save the lives of many people.
5. Have you ever considered that God is using your painful past as a pathway to your beautiful future?
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