July 24, 2023
Big Idea
Failure: Doing what's right in your own eyes.
So Delilah said to Samson, "Please tell me where your great strength lies, and how you might be bound, that one could subdue you."
1 Samson went to Gaza, and there he saw a prostitute, and he went in to her. 2 The Gazites were told, “Samson has come here.” And they surrounded the place and set an ambush for him all night at the gate of the city. They kept quiet all night, saying, “Let us wait till the light of the morning; then we will kill him.” 3 But Samson lay till midnight, and at midnight he arose and took hold of the doors of the gate of the city and the two posts, and pulled them up, bar and all, and put them on his shoulders and carried them to the top of the hill that is in front of Hebron.
4 After this he loved a woman in the Valley of Sorek, whose name was Delilah. 5 And the lords of the Philistines came up to her and said to her, “Seduce him, and see where his great strength lies, and by what means we may overpower him, that we may bind him to humble him. And we will each give you 1,100 pieces of silver.” 6 So Delilah said to Samson, “Please tell me where your great strength lies, and how you might be bound, that one could subdue you.”
7 Samson said to her, “If they bind me with seven fresh bowstrings that have not been dried, then I shall become weak and be like any other man.” 8 Then the lords of the Philistines brought up to her seven fresh bowstrings that had not been dried, and she bound him with them. 9 Now she had men lying in ambush in an inner chamber. And she said to him, “The Philistines are upon you, Samson!” But he snapped the bowstrings, as a thread of flax snaps when it touches the fire. So the secret of his strength was not known.
10 Then Delilah said to Samson, “Behold, you have mocked me and told me lies. Please tell me how you might be bound.” 11 And he said to her, “If they bind me with new ropes that have not been used, then I shall become weak and be like any other man.” 12 So Delilah took new ropes and bound him with them and said to him, “The Philistines are upon you, Samson!” And the men lying in ambush were in an inner chamber. But he snapped the ropes off his arms like a thread.
13 Then Delilah said to Samson, “Until now you have mocked me and told me lies. Tell me how you might be bound.” And he said to her, “If you weave the seven locks of my head with the web and fasten it tight with the pin, then I shall become weak and be like any other man.” 14 So while he slept, Delilah took the seven locks of his head and wove them into the web. 1 16:14 Compare Septuagint; Hebrew lacks and fasten it tight into the web And she made them tight with the pin and said to him, “The Philistines are upon you, Samson!” But he awoke from his sleep and pulled away the pin, the loom, and the web.
15 And she said to him, “How can you say, ‘I love you,’ when your heart is not with me? You have mocked me these three times, and you have not told me where your great strength lies.” 16 And when she pressed him hard with her words day after day, and urged him, his soul was vexed to death. 17 And he told her all his heart, and said to her, “A razor has never come upon my head, for I have been a Nazirite to God from my mother's womb. If my head is shaved, then my strength will leave me, and I shall become weak and be like any other man.”
18 When Delilah saw that he had told her all his heart, she sent and called the lords of the Philistines, saying, “Come up again, for he has told me all his heart.” Then the lords of the Philistines came up to her and brought the money in their hands. 19 She made him sleep on her knees. And she called a man and had him shave off the seven locks of his head. Then she began to torment him, and his strength left him. 20 And she said, “The Philistines are upon you, Samson!” And he awoke from his sleep and said, “I will go out as at other times and shake myself free.” But he did not know that the LORD had left him. 21 And the Philistines seized him and gouged out his eyes and brought him down to Gaza and bound him with bronze shackles. And he ground at the mill in the prison. 22 But the hair of his head began to grow again after it had been shaved.
23 Now the lords of the Philistines gathered to offer a great sacrifice to Dagon their god and to rejoice, and they said, “Our god has given Samson our enemy into our hand.” 24 And when the people saw him, they praised their god. For they said, “Our god has given our enemy into our hand, the ravager of our country, who has killed many of us.” 2 16:24 Or who has multiplied our slain 25 And when their hearts were merry, they said, “Call Samson, that he may entertain us.” So they called Samson out of the prison, and he entertained them. They made him stand between the pillars. 26 And Samson said to the young man who held him by the hand, “Let me feel the pillars on which the house rests, that I may lean against them.” 27 Now the house was full of men and women. All the lords of the Philistines were there, and on the roof there were about 3,000 men and women, who looked on while Samson entertained.
28 Then Samson called to the LORD and said, “O Lord God, please remember me and please strengthen me only this once, O God, that I may be avenged on the Philistines for my two eyes.” 29 And Samson grasped the two middle pillars on which the house rested, and he leaned his weight against them, his right hand on the one and his left hand on the other. 30 And Samson said, “Let me die with the Philistines.” Then he bowed with all his strength, and the house fell upon the lords and upon all the people who were in it. So the dead whom he killed at his death were more than those whom he had killed during his life. 31 Then his brothers and all his family came down and took him and brought him up and buried him between Zorah and Eshtaol in the tomb of Manoah his father. He had judged Israel twenty years.
The story of Samson is one of a man who repeatedly plays with fire, while seeming to avoid consequences. It can be easy to read that Delilah asked Samson for the secret to his strength and question why Samson continued to engage with her.
But how often are we like Samson? Samson was desensitized to his sin and its consequences long before Delilah. As Timothy Keller states in Judges for You, p. 155-56: "He assumed his strength would still be there, even though his hair had gone. Samson had been slowly breaking his Nazarite vow over a period of time." It was a series of choices in his own strength that led him to this fateful relationship. You probably don't have superhuman strength you believe will never leave you, but perhaps you are battling a sin in your own strength or are simply not living life from a posture of humility. Samson’s foremost sin was not unhealthy relationships, taunting his enemies, or flirting with danger. It was pride. God had given Samson strength and leadership; and instead of using his blessings to honor God in his leadership, he used them to honor himself. He abandoned his need for God, and one prideful decision after another led him to a place where he believed he was indestructible.
The good news for Samson, and for all of us, is that no matter how dark things got for Samson, it was never too late for him to surrender his pride. After being taken captive by his enemy, having his head shaved and eyes gouged out, he prays in Judges 16:28b, "Sovereign LORD, remember me. Please, God, strengthen me just once more . . . ." He cried out from a posture of humility, recognizing that his strength was from God. And God answered his cry. It did not matter how long Samson had lived on his own terms, God honored his humble heart. In the same way, whether we have been living in our own strength for a day or for a lifetime, God sees our humble hearts and meets us in our surrender.
This month's memory verse
17 But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy and good fruits, impartial and sincere.
1. Samson found himself in this position because of a lifetime of prideful decisions made in his own strength. What is an area of your life in which you need to humbly ask for God's strength?
2. It is easy to look at Samson's life, see the bad decisions he made, and forget that the root of his sin was actually pride. Whether your life is a series of bad choices, good choices, or somewhere in between, in what areas are you prone to have a prideful heart?
3. Samson's story could have looked different if he had seen his sinful choices and humbled himself before God earlier in life. What would it look like for you to create a daily practice of reflecting on what's happening in your heart and continually surrender the prideful parts to God?
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