July 28, 2023

Hitting the Wall

Judges 21

Brad Gaultney
Friday's Devo

July 28, 2023

Friday's Devo

July 28, 2023

Big Idea

Failure: Doing what's right in your own eyes.

Key Verse | Judges 21:25

In those days there was no king in Israel. Everyone did what was right in his own eyes.

Judges 21

Wives Provided for the Tribe of Benjamin

Now the men of Israel had sworn at Mizpah, “No one of us shall give his daughter in marriage to Benjamin.” And the people came to Bethel and sat there till evening before God, and they lifted up their voices and wept bitterly. And they said, “O LORD, the God of Israel, why has this happened in Israel, that today there should be one tribe lacking in Israel?” And the next day the people rose early and built there an altar and offered burnt offerings and peace offerings. And the people of Israel said, “Which of all the tribes of Israel did not come up in the assembly to the LORD?” For they had taken a great oath concerning him who did not come up to the LORD to Mizpah, saying, “He shall surely be put to death.” And the people of Israel had compassion for Benjamin their brother and said, “One tribe is cut off from Israel this day. What shall we do for wives for those who are left, since we have sworn by the LORD that we will not give them any of our daughters for wives?”

And they said, “What one is there of the tribes of Israel that did not come up to the LORD to Mizpah?” And behold, no one had come to the camp from Jabesh-gilead, to the assembly. For when the people were mustered, behold, not one of the inhabitants of Jabesh-gilead was there. 10 So the congregation sent 12,000 of their bravest men there and commanded them, “Go and strike the inhabitants of Jabesh-gilead with the edge of the sword; also the women and the little ones. 11 This is what you shall do: every male and every woman that has lain with a male you shall devote to destruction.” 12 And they found among the inhabitants of Jabesh-gilead 400 young virgins who had not known a man by lying with him, and they brought them to the camp at Shiloh, which is in the land of Canaan.

13 Then the whole congregation sent word to the people of Benjamin who were at the rock of Rimmon and proclaimed peace to them. 14 And Benjamin returned at that time. And they gave them the women whom they had saved alive of the women of Jabesh-gilead, but they were not enough for them. 15 And the people had compassion on Benjamin because the LORD had made a breach in the tribes of Israel.

16 Then the elders of the congregation said, “What shall we do for wives for those who are left, since the women are destroyed out of Benjamin?” 17 And they said, “There must be an inheritance for the survivors of Benjamin, that a tribe not be blotted out from Israel. 18 Yet we cannot give them wives from our daughters.” For the people of Israel had sworn, “Cursed be he who gives a wife to Benjamin.” 19 So they said, “Behold, there is the yearly feast of the LORD at Shiloh, which is north of Bethel, on the east of the highway that goes up from Bethel to Shechem, and south of Lebonah.” 20 And they commanded the people of Benjamin, saying, “Go and lie in ambush in the vineyards 21 and watch. If the daughters of Shiloh come out to dance in the dances, then come out of the vineyards and snatch each man his wife from the daughters of Shiloh, and go to the land of Benjamin. 22 And when their fathers or their brothers come to complain to us, we will say to them, ‘Grant them graciously to us, because we did not take for each man of them his wife in battle, neither did you give them to them, else you would now be guilty.’” 23 And the people of Benjamin did so and took their wives, according to their number, from the dancers whom they carried off. Then they went and returned to their inheritance and rebuilt the towns and lived in them. 24 And the people of Israel departed from there at that time, every man to his tribe and family, and they went out from there every man to his inheritance.

25 In those days there was no king in Israel. Everyone did what was right in his own eyes.

"Wives for the tribe of Benjamin"

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Dive Deeper | Judges 21

What makes a Bible passage hard? The same things that make everything in life hard: confusion, gray areas, isolation, lack of context, brutality, broken promises, deception, death. Most of the Bible (and life) is not hard because we don't know what is happening—it's hard because we don't know why

2021 was a hard year for me. It was a year I would call the "dark night of my soul." My faith in Christ never wavered, but the Jesus I knew, loved, and had followed for over 20 years seemed to be silent. Everything I did in my work seemed to fail. Through friends and courses I had taken at church, I eventually recognized that I was at the wall—a God-directed period of disillusionment designed to strip away ego and idols. I knew there was only one healthy thing I could do during that time: sit and wait.  

Once I understood what God was doing, the circumstances were not easier, but it was easier to trust and obey. During that time, I learned that deep down I wrongly believed the blessings in my life came from my ability, not God's kindness.

Judges 21 is a hard and confusing chapter in a book marked by an increasingly dark spiral downward toward sin and disobedience. Israel is in one of the darkest chapters of its history. The final verse (Judges 21:25) is the infamous line: "In those days there was no king in Israel. Everyone did what was right in his own eyes."

When you find yourself in a season like my 2021, don't be like Israel in Judges 21, doing whatever seems right to you. Be a man or woman who so trusts Jesus that you will sit and wait in the silent darkness until His purpose for that time is complete in you.

What is that purpose? See 2 Thessalonians 3:5.

This month's memory verse

17 But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy and good fruits, impartial and sincere.

– James 3:17

Discussion Questions

1. If God causes or allows everything to happen, what do you think His purpose for Israel was in Judges 21?

2. 2021 was about exposing areas of my life where I was finding my identity apart from Christ. What are you currently trusting in for your identity?

3. Homework: Ask your spouse, family, and/or community group how they see Christ reigning as King in your life.

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Hugh Stephenson

Good morning, Brad!! Love this devo. Filled with great observations and truth. I really like the three below. “Once I understood what God was doing, the circumstances were not easier, but it was easier to trust and obey.” “Through friends and courses I had taken at church, I eventually recognized that I was at the wall—a God-directed period of disillusionment designed to strip away ego and idols.” “During that time, I learned that deep down I wrongly believed the blessings in my life came from my ability, not God's kindness.” Q1-Q2 Answered below.
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Hugh Stephenson

The Eden Project guys have a great illustration that explains all of the times I “hit a wall”. Writing from memory… Draw a clock face. At 12:00 write ORIENTATION at 4:00 write DISORIENTATION AT 8:00 write REORIENTATION In a process that only ends when I go to Heaven, I start with a particular ORIENTATION. As I walk through sanctification I get to a point where God causes or allows a huge “divine interruption”, (see Jonah). This is the DISORIENTATION Through the next period of time in sanctification I move towards a REORIENTATION until I finally rest in a new ORIENTATION. I love this representation. It fits the road of my life. And I can easily see it as sanctification. But also, pre-salvation, I can see how God was allowing me to blow myself up on a regular basis until I got to my Luke 15:16 moment. Check out Theedenproject.com. Absolutely fabulous resources.
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Hugh Stephenson

Great summaries from the Notes- "Judges 19—21 gives us the ugliest story in the Bible. The key to it is that, at every stage, men were acting on the basis of what was right in their own eyes. As far as the men of Gibeah were concerned, rape was all right. To the farmer and the Levite in the house, homosexual rape was unthinkable, but other rape was acceptable. The men of Benjamin thought it was right to overlook sin and to defend evil men. To Israel, revenge and retaliation would be justified, and to solve their problems about marriage for the Benjamites, the massacre of innocent people and kidnapping could be condoned. Joshua and Judges, therefore, give proof positively and negatively, respectively, of how the basic principles, affecting the relationship that God intends people to enjoy, work out in national and personal life. The Pentateuch revealed these principles: In Genesis, Moses moved from the general to the specific (cf. chs. 1 and 2, et al.). God's primary concern is for people. His purpose to bless man stands out. Faith in God is shown to be the main principle for a successful life. In Exodus, we observe God's methods. He created a pattern in Israel. He revealed a person: Himself. And He provided an opportunity for people by giving them personal choices. The outstanding theological emphases in Exodus are God's sovereignty and man's salvation. God's sovereignty should result in worship. Man's salvation should lead to obedience. We also see in this book God providing redemption. In Leviticus, we have a revelation of human sin and divine holiness. God is essentially holy, and man is essentially sinful. Leviticus also teaches us how sinful redeemed people can have intimate fellowship with a holy God. The basis for fellowship with God is sacrifice. Leviticus anticipates the sacrifice of Christ. Numbers reveals that everything depends on our attitude toward God. Kadesh-Barnea was the great testing point for Israel that teaches this lesson most clearly. Obedience must follow faith. We must continue to walk by faith, just as we began to follow God by faith, or we will suffer discipline and setbacks. Deuteronomy is all about motivation. Here we learn that the basis of God's government is His love. Likewise, our obedience should be based on our love for God because of what He has done for us. We need to remind ourselves of God's past provisions and faithfulness, in order to help us to continue to love Him.
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Michael Sisson

PREFACE Late yesterday, I amended my 7/27/23 comment with a brief spiritual heritage note. I encourage readers desiring to become more culturally literate about their faith to check it out. https://www.jointhejourney.com/5042-ever-wondered-how-did-we-get-here#comments COMMENTARY Re: Jdg 21:19 Jdg 21:19 (NASB) So they said, “Behold, >>>there is a feast of the LORD from year to year in Shiloh<<<, which is on the north side of Bethel, on the east side of the highway that goes up from Bethel to Shechem, and on the south side of Lebonah.” Shiloh is in Manasseh’s territory. Re: Jdg 21:22 Jdg 21:22 (NASB) “It shall come about, when their fathers or their brothers come to complain to us, that we shall say to them, >>>‘Give them to us voluntarily, because we did not take for each man of Benjamin a wife in battle, nor did you give them to them, else you would now be guilty.’ ”<<< This seems like a dirty trick to play on those celebrating “a feast of the LORD” (Jdg 21:19) and a brutal loophole with which to circumvent a hastily made vow. One wonders if someone from Manasseh was even present when this plan to kidnap brides was hatched. Re: Jdg 21:25 Jdg 21:25 (NASB) >>>In those days there was no king in Israel<<<; everyone did what was right in his own eyes. Perhaps this oft recurring phrase best characterizes the Book of Judges itself. While Israel had no earthly king at the time, G-d was Israel’s King (1Sam 8:7), and throughout the period of the Judges Israel repeatedly failed to consistently acknowledge Him as their Sovereign.
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Michael Scaman

The book ends with some realization things went terribly wrong. Still, the remaining men of the tribe of Benjamin were to grab a girl claim and marry her whether she liked it or not. Must have been a trauma for the girls and their families. Benjamin went through trauma and destruction , partly because of foolish oaths and over punishing of the tribe, partly their own sin and the resistance to dealing with the guilty mob and nipping g the problem in the bud before it grew out of control people and dealing with the issue. On the other hand in Hebrew 'Sodom and Gomorra' literally mean 'destruction and desolation' and there is sowing of what one reaps at some levels. How did the next generation cope with a dad who kidnapped the mom and extended family wiped out on one side and perhaps disapproving and alienated from the other half. Painful for generations. But every man did what was right in their own eyes. Flashes of hope in the book but judges ends in discord with no resolution.
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Amy Lowther

1. In Judges 21, Israelites had chances to improve their relationships with each other within their country and their relationships with the Lord. 2. I trust God and I trust Jesus for everything in life. 3. My friends see Christ reigning in my life and it motivates them to know Christ too.
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Sue Bohlin

Super devo, Brad, bless you! I'm relieved to be at the end of Judges. It's so incredibly sad and heartbreaking. And the message of the book is not lost on me. I see more than ever before the warning about the consequences of doing what is right in my own eyes. The word we use a lot in re:gen circles is "self-reliance" rather than depending on the Lord. The trap of self-reliance can so easily become a daily habit by not checking in with the Lord throughout the day. If I check my phone more than I acknowledge the Lord of the Universe and invite Him into the various parts of my day, I'm headed down the same path as Israel. This is a serious warning I am taking seriously.
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morgan houghton

Wow thank you for sharing these truths with us today! Such a powerful passage and takeaway for application as well. 1. I think God had given them so many warnings and punishments at this point to where they knew what was right and they knew what was wrong and what they were doing was definitely wrong, but I think also at a certain point if you have been taught and know the right way to act at a certain point you are not going to be corrected forever. We are humans and are able to think cognitively and use the free will God has given us. And maybe sometimes He allows us to sit in those decisions to realize that we have messed up big time and unfortunately we will have to take those consequences for the decisions we’ve made. 2. 2021 was about exposing areas of my life where I was finding my identity apart from Christ. What are you currently trusting in for your identity? This is such a good question, and something I think God has been working in my heart on. I am naturally a people pleaser and want everyone to think well of me but also I want to help those around me the best that I can. In saying that im in a dating relationship for the first time and it has been a struggle to not let that become my identity and what i run to because I love him so much and don’t want to lose our relationship. But if my identity is in that everything else will be thrown off and out of balance. Lord please help me to keep my identity in you and be reminded of the good and loving God you are.