October 9, 2023

Is your heart hardening or softening with age?

1 Kings 11

Pon Sakungew
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October 9, 2023

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October 9, 2023

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Key Verse | 1 Kings 11:4

For when Solomon was old his wives turned away his heart after other gods, and his heart was not wholly true to the LORD his God, as was the heart of David his father.

1 Kings 11

Solomon Turns from the LORD

Now King Solomon loved many foreign women, along with the daughter of Pharaoh: Moabite, Ammonite, Edomite, Sidonian, and Hittite women, from the nations concerning which the LORD had said to the people of Israel, “You shall not enter into marriage with them, neither shall they with you, for surely they will turn away your heart after their gods.” Solomon clung to these in love. He had 700 wives, who were princesses, and 300 concubines. And his wives turned away his heart. For when Solomon was old his wives turned away his heart after other gods, and his heart was not wholly true to the LORD his God, as was the heart of David his father. For Solomon went after Ashtoreth the goddess of the Sidonians, and after Milcom the abomination of the Ammonites. So Solomon did what was evil in the sight of the LORD and did not wholly follow the LORD, as David his father had done. Then Solomon built a high place for Chemosh the abomination of Moab, and for Molech the abomination of the Ammonites, on the mountain east of Jerusalem. And so he did for all his foreign wives, who made offerings and sacrificed to their gods.

The LORD Raises Adversaries

And the LORD was angry with Solomon, because his heart had turned away from the LORD, the God of Israel, who had appeared to him twice 10 and had commanded him concerning this thing, that he should not go after other gods. But he did not keep what the LORD commanded. 11 Therefore the LORD said to Solomon, “Since this has been your practice and you have not kept my covenant and my statutes that I have commanded you, I will surely tear the kingdom from you and will give it to your servant. 12 Yet for the sake of David your father I will not do it in your days, but I will tear it out of the hand of your son. 13 However, I will not tear away all the kingdom, but I will give one tribe to your son, for the sake of David my servant and for the sake of Jerusalem that I have chosen.”

14 And the LORD raised up an adversary against Solomon, Hadad the Edomite. He was of the royal house in Edom. 15 For when David was in Edom, and Joab the commander of the army went up to bury the slain, he struck down every male in Edom 16 (for Joab and all Israel remained there six months, until he had cut off every male in Edom). 17 But Hadad fled to Egypt, together with certain Edomites of his father's servants, Hadad still being a little child. 18 They set out from Midian and came to Paran and took men with them from Paran and came to Egypt, to Pharaoh king of Egypt, who gave him a house and assigned him an allowance of food and gave him land. 19 And Hadad found great favor in the sight of Pharaoh, so that he gave him in marriage the sister of his own wife, the sister of Tahpenes the queen. 20 And the sister of Tahpenes bore him Genubath his son, whom Tahpenes weaned in Pharaoh's house. And Genubath was in Pharaoh's house among the sons of Pharaoh. 21 But when Hadad heard in Egypt that David slept with his fathers and that Joab the commander of the army was dead, Hadad said to Pharaoh, “Let me depart, that I may go to my own country.” 22 But Pharaoh said to him, “What have you lacked with me that you are now seeking to go to your own country?” And he said to him, “Only let me depart.”

23 God also raised up as an adversary to him, Rezon the son of Eliada, who had fled from his master Hadadezer king of Zobah. 24 And he gathered men about him and became leader of a marauding band, after the killing by David. And they went to Damascus and lived there and made him king in Damascus. 25 He was an adversary of Israel all the days of Solomon, doing harm as Hadad did. And he loathed Israel and reigned over Syria.

26 Jeroboam the son of Nebat, an Ephraimite of Zeredah, a servant of Solomon, whose mother's name was Zeruah, a widow, also lifted up his hand against the king. 27 And this was the reason why he lifted up his hand against the king. Solomon built the Millo, and closed up the breach of the city of David his father. 28 The man Jeroboam was very able, and when Solomon saw that the young man was industrious he gave him charge over all the forced labor of the house of Joseph. 29 And at that time, when Jeroboam went out of Jerusalem, the prophet Ahijah the Shilonite found him on the road. Now Ahijah had dressed himself in a new garment, and the two of them were alone in the open country. 30 Then Ahijah laid hold of the new garment that was on him, and tore it into twelve pieces. 31 And he said to Jeroboam, “Take for yourself ten pieces, for thus says the LORD, the God of Israel, ‘Behold, I am about to tear the kingdom from the hand of Solomon and will give you ten tribes 32 (but he shall have one tribe, for the sake of my servant David and for the sake of Jerusalem, the city that I have chosen out of all the tribes of Israel), 33 because they have 1 11:33 Septuagint, Syriac, Vulgate he has; twice in this verse forsaken me and worshiped Ashtoreth the goddess of the Sidonians, Chemosh the god of Moab, and Milcom the god of the Ammonites, and they have not walked in my ways, doing what is right in my sight and keeping my statutes and my rules, as David his father did. 34 Nevertheless, I will not take the whole kingdom out of his hand, but I will make him ruler all the days of his life, for the sake of David my servant whom I chose, who kept my commandments and my statutes. 35 But I will take the kingdom out of his son's hand and will give it to you, ten tribes. 36 Yet to his son I will give one tribe, that David my servant may always have a lamp before me in Jerusalem, the city where I have chosen to put my name. 37 And I will take you, and you shall reign over all that your soul desires, and you shall be king over Israel. 38 And if you will listen to all that I command you, and will walk in my ways, and do what is right in my eyes by keeping my statutes and my commandments, as David my servant did, I will be with you and will build you a sure house, as I built for David, and I will give Israel to you. 39 And I will afflict the offspring of David because of this, but not forever.’” 40 Solomon sought therefore to kill Jeroboam. But Jeroboam arose and fled into Egypt, to Shishak king of Egypt, and was in Egypt until the death of Solomon.

41 Now the rest of the acts of Solomon, and all that he did, and his wisdom, are they not written in the Book of the Acts of Solomon? 42 And the time that Solomon reigned in Jerusalem over all Israel was forty years. 43 And Solomon slept with his fathers and was buried in the city of David his father. And Rehoboam his son reigned in his place.

Footnotes

[1] 11:33 Septuagint, Syriac, Vulgate he has; twice in this verse

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Dive Deeper | 1 Kings 11

Solomon got off to a great start. He humbly asked God for wisdom to govern the nation of Israel. He built God's temple. He even wrote a few books of the Bible.  It's not that Solomon didn't love God. It's that his other loves competed with God and, over time, turned his heart away (1 Kings 11:4). Solomon found himself in a dark place he probably never imagined—building temples to pagan idols. 

God gave Israel a law prohibiting marriage with foreign people because He knew they would lead Israel to worship false gods (1 Kings 11:2). As a loving Father, God knows our weaknesses and desires to protect us from harmful choices.  I grew up seeing the Bible as a rule book. It took me a long time to understand that "the law of the Lord is perfect . . . ." (Psalm 19:7a) God's commands are for our good.

Solomon knew God's law, but knowing isn't enough! We must obey God's commands and apply them to our daily decisions.  Only by being "a doer who acts" (James 1:25) will we be blessed. 

If Solomon, the wisest person ever, could fall into temptation, maybe we should humbly examine our own lives. What is consuming our affections? Who are we spending time with and getting close to? 

For me, I know there are certain activities that distract me from "whatever is true, whatever is honorable, . . . whatever is pure . . . ." (Philippians 4:8) Once I identify areas in which I'm tempted, I put guardrails to avoid those things. Thankfully, I don't have to do this alone. I have wonderful people around me who care enough to speak the truth when my actions don't align with Scripture.

The downstream impact of Solomon's disobedience was profound. Israel struggled with idol worship for hundreds of years after he died. Eventually, the great temple he built was destroyed, and God's people were led into exile in Babylon.  Solomon's life reminds me that we all are leaving behind a legacy. The question is what type of legacy will it be?

This month's memory verse

Trust in the LORD with all your heart,
    and do not lean on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge him,
    and he will make straight your paths.
 

– Proverbs 3:5-6

Discussion Questions

1. Who are the people closest to you? Are they turning your heart toward God or away from Him? Consider these verses: "Do not be deceived: 'Bad company ruins good morals.'" (1 Corinthians 15:33) "Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm." (Proverbs 13:20)

2. Do you have "other loves" that are taking your heart away from God? Examples could be hobbies, vacation homes, attention from social media, the pursuit of comfort.

3. Are you deep in a struggle of "worshiping idols"? There are many resources at Watermark to get hope, help, and healing. Not sure where to start? Search the internet for "watermark church connect," click on "Connect" at the top of the page, and fill out the "Connect With Us" form.

4. Who can speak into your life in a loving and truthful way? Let us help get you connected to other believers to encourage and sharpen you.

5. Do you need to make any changes in your life based on your answers? What does your next step of faithfulness look like?

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Hugh Stephenson

Good morning all- I see this chapter as making a seminal statement about the single and most critical factor in my faith; an undivided heart. Below I have collected some lengthy thoughts on this subject. In so doing, the Holy Spirit is convicting me of several ways I have let my heart get divided. I ask that those interested in my thoughts endure the length of this comment. I hope God’s wisdom and admonition shine through my verbosity. As a student of military history I am aware of the admonition to never make a frontal attack against an enemy with a superior force. Three of the great battlefield generals knew this “rule” and adhered to it in their military strategy and tactics. Sun Tzu - Wikipedia Carl von Clausewitz - Wikipedia Nathan Bedford Forrest - Wikipedia The Duke of Wellington is said to have stated this-, “The Battle of Waterloo was won on the playing fields of Eton.” https://www.vedantu.com/question-answer/the-battle-of-waterloo-was-won-on-the-playing-class-9-social-science-cbse-5feb327f07b3106831569d2c His point is that this military tactic was at least partially learned and practiced in other venues such as organized athletics. In the American Revolutionary War the colonists knew they could never defeat the British heads on. Therefore, many of them took to a form of guerrilla warfare by hiding in the woods and attacking the British as they marched to the next city or town. Critically, they knew that if they killed the commanding officers the soldiers would be immediately disordered and more easily defeated. They knew who the officers were because their uniforms were different and their ranks were so designated by their uniforms. Why am I talking about this? Because, like the American colonists, “Satan aims at the stripes.” What does this mean? I first heard this saying a few years ago in reference to a church leader who had made a terrible and tragic choice . It was explained to me using the analogy of how the rank of military leaders is conveyed by the number of “stripes” on their uniform. The concept is that Satan “sees” the stripes and aims to take out those leaders. If he succeeds, picking off the members becomes much easier. It seems to me that, at least in part, this is what Paul is talking about in Ephesians 6:10-20. Satan is the ruler of this world and the strongest possible “adversary’. Only the Full Armor of God gives me a chance against him.
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Hugh Stephenson

In this chapter God conveys to me that Satan’s battle for Solomon’s heart has been won. How do I know that? One word. “clung” in verse 2 Please note the extensive definitions from Strong’s below. Note especially the verse citation of Genesis 2:24. 2 cling, cleave to, a. figurative of loyalty, affection etc., sometimes with idea of physical proximity retained, followed by בְּ Genesis 2:24 (J; man to wife) compare Genesis 34:3 (J) 1 Kings 11:2; Joshua 23:12 (D); further Ruth 1:14 (Ruth to Naomi); 2 Samuel 20:2 (people to king); especially (followed by בְּ) of cleaving to ׳י Deuteronomy 11:22 ("" אָהֵב, הָלַךְ בְּכָלדְּֿרָכָיו) Deuteronomy 30:20 ("" אָהֵב, שָׁמַע בְּקֹלוֺ), Joshua 22:5 ("" אָהֵב, ׳הָלַךְ וגו, שָׁמַר מִצְוֺתָיו); compare further Deuteronomy 10:20; Deuteronomy 13:5; Joshua 23:8 (all D), 2 Kings 18:6; Psalm 63:9 (followed by אַחֲרֵי) & Psalm 119:31 דָּבַקְתּי בְֵ˜עדְוֺתֶ֑יךָ; so I am taught that “dabaq” or “clung” describes the strongest possible adhesion. Note these verses Deuteronomy 6:5; 10:12, 20; 11:1, 22; 13:4; 30:20 The ESV SB offers this comment on “clung”, (dabaq)- “…where they speak of unswerving human loyalty to God. Solomon’s heart, however, was divided (1 Kings 11:4); and in spite of his pious hope that God would always turn Israelite hearts to himself (8:58), the king’s wives, in his old age, turned away his heart in the opposite direction, after other gods. I link to Revelation 2:4. I add this great article from Desiring God- https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/have-you-left-your-first-love
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Hugh Stephenson

Satan is the ruler of this world. Apart from Christ, I have no chance against him. The “stripes” I wear are to be the visible evidence of an undivided heart and my living out Luke 9:23. Therefore, the only way for me to win this battle is total and complete unconditional surrender. I’ll close with this- Over the last few months the LORD has revealed to me a number of ways that my own heart has become divided. This is in spite of the innumerable blessings He has given me. In prayer, I lean back into this song from Watermark Music. Live Worship Session of "Undivided Heart" featuring Hayden Browning from Watermark Music. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DnqIokstZcw It seems that the sanctification the LORD has for me is still through James 1:2-4, Romans 5:3-5, and Isaiah 30:20-21. In this journey, I am immensely blessed by Casting Crowns and Matthew West as they sing of the surrender that seems so elusive- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g8sazOiolF8
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Greg Jones

Hey! What time is dinner?? More on the structure of the story of Solomon. 1 Kings chapter 3 and how it fits with chapters 9, 10, and 11. By noting the structure and asking a question like why write it like that? One thing that stands out to me is that it seems to acknowledge a previous positive view of Solomon. But over time, a more critical view of Solomon emerges. Over time many of us will take a critical view of our former faith to, review, our faith. That is an important process, my opinion. When we don’t it can lead to something like what we see depicted in Solomon’s life. By recognizing structure in the ancient text that is scripture we can the ancient writers telling us of their emerging view of themselves as image bearers of the living God. And that, helps to make the ancient scripture the timeless scripture it is intended to be. 1 Kings 3:16-28 The example of Solomon’s wisdom is revealed in his judgement concerning a child and two prostitutes. 1 Kings 11:9-13 1 Kings 11:31-40 When Israel was a child, I loved him, and out of Egypt I called my son. Hosea 11:1 The child that was Israel is going to be split apart due to the acts of Solomon. A side note Solomon’s enemies spend some time hiding in Egypt. In Matthew there is another version of fleeing to Egypt. The reason, after Herod had been fooled by the “wise man” an angle of the Lord came to Joseph in a dream and told him to take the child and Mary and flee. For the gospel of Matthew writer this fulfilled what the prophet Hosea spoke. (Matthew 2:7-15)
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Michael Sisson

Re: 1Kgs 1-8 “Men ruin themselves headlong for unworthy women.” — Wilkie Collins “The writer's condemnation of Solomon in verses 1 and 2 rests on Deuteronomy 23:3-9 as well as Deuteronomy 7:3-4 (cf. Prov 31:3). The phraseology goes back to Dt 23:3-9 and the motive to Dt 7:3-4 (cf. Exod 23:31-33; 34:15-16; Ezra 9:1; Neh 13:26). Solomon's foreign wives were of two categories: Canaanites (prohibited in Deuteronomy 7), and women from other nations (prohibited in Deuteronomy 23).[215] Furthermore, God specifically forbade the multiplying of wives by Israel's kings (Deut 17:17). Solomon violated both the letter and the spirit of the Law.[216]” — T. Constable Re: 1Kgs 11:11 1 Kgs 11:11 (NASB) So the LORD said to Solomon, “Because you have done this, and you have not kept My covenant and My statutes, which I have commanded you, >>>I will surely tear the kingdom from you, and will give it to your servant.<<< See 1Kgs 11:26. Re: 1Kgs 11:13 1 Kgs 11:13 (NASB) “However, I will not tear away all the kingdom, but >>>I will give one tribe to your son for the sake of My servant David and for the sake of Jerusalem which I have chosen.”<<< See 1Kgs 11:43. Re: 1Kgs 11:26 1 Kgs 11:26 (NASB) Then >>>Jeroboam the son of Nebat, an Ephraimite of Zeredah, Solomon's servant<<<, whose mother's name was Zeruah, a widow, also >>>rebelled against the king. <<< A fulfillment of 1Kgs 11:11. Re: 1Kgs 11:43 1 Kgs 11:43 (NASB) And Solomon slept with his fathers and was buried in the city of his father David, and >>>his son Rehoboam reigned in his place.<<< A fulfillment of 1Kgs 11:13.
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Greg Jones

If you continue in the Matthew 2 account another interesting parallel emerges. The birth of one child causes the death of many-Matthew 2:16. The perp is Herod the Great a man known for some great building projects just like Solomon. Picking the Matthew account back up Then was fulfilled what was spoken by the prophet Jeremiah: “A voice was heard in Ramah, weeping and loud lamentation, Rachel weeping for her children; she refused to be comforted, because they are no more.” Matthew 2:17-18 Who was Rachel? Jacob’s second wife, the one he loved Genesis 29:18-20. The one who stole the household gods of her father when Jacob fled his father in law Laban Genesis 31:34. In the gospels the Pharisees are often cast as the bad guys of the gospel. I think, paying a little closer attention to structure and similarity, what can be seen in the Pharisees is an over compensation in correcting the wrongs of Solomon. The greater problem becomes they lose the empathy Solomon showed in his judgement of the child between two prostitutes. When I review my own faith and when I view the faith of others I can often see myself sitting in the seat of a Pharisee. But when the Pharisees heard that he had silenced the Sadducees, they gathered together. And one of them, a lawyer, asked him a question to test him. “Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?” And he said to him, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. On these two commandments depend all the Law and the Prophets.” Matthew 22:34-40 Seeing Solomon’s story in Matthew helps me to see my story in Matthew.
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Sue Bohlin

Thanks so much, Pon. I am shaking my head in wonder at how ANY man could have 1000 women. Solomon had to have been a sex addict. Not to mention, since we read that he "loved" foreign women, he had no self-control when it came to his emotions toward women. I am intrigued by the Hebrew, that his many wives "bent his heart" toward their false gods. The title "influencer" has become part of our culture, but starting with Eve, women have ALWAYS been influencers. The question is, do we use our influence for good or evil? In Ch. 11 we see that women influence Solomon toward a syncretistic view of religion, adding all those gods of his foreign wives to his worship of Yahweh. These days, girls influence other girls toward gender confusion (a transgender identity), just as their influence caused the social contagions of cutting and anorexia/bulimia in the past. This is sobering.
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Amy Lowther

1. My friends are the closest people to me. My friends help turn my heart towards God. 2. Anything can take me away from God, but by understanding His character and His values, I stay to God’s way to see life and accomplish things. This helps me to achieve the best results. 3. Having idols can be bad experiences where I don’t get everything done that I should have gotten done. It is amazing how God helps me through idols to have happy, healthy experiences. 4. God speaks into my life in a loving, truthful way. He helps any social situation be great. 5. It is important to look to God and to walk with Jesus everyday even if I have to take a short break away from busyness to pray.
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Michael Scaman

There may also have been a softening of Solomon's heart regarding marriage. He marries hundreds of women but will write a love song about a hone and only. Real wisdom is complex and Solomon will advise us to 'guard our hearts" We see aspects of wison reflected in Job wisdom in suffering, Ecclesiastes - wisdom in success - Proverbs Wisdom is rules for life and Psalms Wisdom in worship and they all play off eachother and are in some sence take us deeper into what real wisdom looks like