January 5, 2024

What Does the Bible Say About Laziness?

Proverbs 6

Dawn Johnson
Friday's Devo

January 5, 2024

Friday's Devo

January 5, 2024

Big Book Idea

Living wisely; God's way.

Key Verse | Proverbs 6:10-11

A little sleep, a little slumber,
a little folding of the hands to rest,
and poverty will come upon you like a robber,
and want like an armed man.

Proverbs 6

Practical Warnings

My son, if you have put up security for your neighbor,
    have given your pledge for a stranger,
if you are snared in the words of your mouth,
    caught in the words of your mouth,
then do this, my son, and save yourself,
    for you have come into the hand of your neighbor:
    go, hasten, 1 6:3 Or humble yourself and plead urgently with your neighbor.
Give your eyes no sleep
    and your eyelids no slumber;
save yourself like a gazelle from the hand of the hunter, 2 6:5 Hebrew lacks of the hunter
    like a bird from the hand of the fowler.

Go to the ant, O sluggard;
    consider her ways, and be wise.
Without having any chief,
    officer, or ruler,
she prepares her bread in summer
    and gathers her food in harvest.
How long will you lie there, O sluggard?
    When will you arise from your sleep?
10  A little sleep, a little slumber,
    a little folding of the hands to rest,
11  and poverty will come upon you like a robber,
    and want like an armed man.

12  A worthless person, a wicked man,
    goes about with crooked speech,
13  winks with his eyes, signals 3 6:13 Hebrew scrapes with his feet,
    points with his finger,
14  with perverted heart devises evil,
    continually sowing discord;
15  therefore calamity will come upon him suddenly;
    in a moment he will be broken beyond healing.

16  There are six things that the LORD hates,
    seven that are an abomination to him:
17  haughty eyes, a lying tongue,
    and hands that shed innocent blood,
18  a heart that devises wicked plans,
    feet that make haste to run to evil,
19  a false witness who breathes out lies,
    and one who sows discord among brothers.

Warnings Against Adultery

20  My son, keep your father's commandment,
    and forsake not your mother's teaching.
21  Bind them on your heart always;
    tie them around your neck.
22  When you walk, they 4 6:22 Hebrew it; three times in this verse will lead you;
    when you lie down, they will watch over you;
    and when you awake, they will talk with you.
23  For the commandment is a lamp and the teaching a light,
    and the reproofs of discipline are the way of life,
24  to preserve you from the evil woman, 5 6:24 Revocalization (compare Septuagint) yields from the wife of a neighbor
    from the smooth tongue of the adulteress. 6 6:24 Hebrew the foreign woman
25  Do not desire her beauty in your heart,
    and do not let her capture you with her eyelashes;
26  for the price of a prostitute is only a loaf of bread, 7 6:26 Or (compare Septuagint, Syriac, Vulgate) for a prostitute leaves a man with nothing but a loaf of bread
    but a married woman 8 6:26 Hebrew a man's wife hunts down a precious life.
27  Can a man carry fire next to his chest
    and his clothes not be burned?
28  Or can one walk on hot coals
    and his feet not be scorched?
29  So is he who goes in to his neighbor's wife;
    none who touches her will go unpunished.
30  People do not despise a thief if he steals
    to satisfy his appetite when he is hungry,
31  but if he is caught, he will pay sevenfold;
    he will give all the goods of his house.
32  He who commits adultery lacks sense;
    he who does it destroys himself.
33  He will get wounds and dishonor,
    and his disgrace will not be wiped away.
34  For jealousy makes a man furious,
    and he will not spare when he takes revenge.
35  He will accept no compensation;
    he will refuse though you multiply gifts.

Footnotes

[1] 6:3 Or humble yourself
[2] 6:5 Hebrew lacks of the hunter
[3] 6:13 Hebrew scrapes
[4] 6:22 Hebrew it; three times in this verse
[5] 6:24 Revocalization (compare Septuagint) yields from the wife of a neighbor
[6] 6:24 Hebrew the foreign woman
[7] 6:26 Or (compare Septuagint, Syriac, Vulgate) for a prostitute leaves a man with nothing but a loaf of bread
[8] 6:26 Hebrew a man's wife
Table of Contents
Introduction to Proverbs

Introduction to Proverbs

Timeline

Author and Date

Proverbs itself mentions Solomon (reigned c. 971–931 B.C.) as author or collector of its contents (1:1; 10:1), including the proverbs copied by Hezekiah’s men (25:1). There are also two batches of sayings from a group called “the wise” (22:17–24:22; 24:23–34), and “oracles” from Agur (30:1–33) and Lemuel (31:1–9). No author is named for the song in praise of the excellent wife that ends the book (31:10–31). Although Proverbs was begun in the time of Solomon, it probably was not in its present form until the time of Hezekiah (reigned c. 715–686 B.C.).

Theme

The goal of the book is stated right at the beginning (1:1–7): to describe what wisdom is and to help God’s people become wise. Wisdom is founded in the “fear of the Lord,” and it enables believers to express their faith in the practical details of everyday life.

Audience

The book is addressed to a young man. The situations he will face while he is young receive much attention. These situations supply concrete examples from which all readers can apply lessons to their own lives. Anyone who is wise and who pays attention will benefit (1:5) from this instruction.

Reading Proverbs

The reader of Proverbs must seek to understand the various types of people the book describes. The most obvious characters in the book are the wise, the fool, and the simple. Proverbs urges its readers to be wise, which means embracing God’s covenant and living out the covenant in everyday situations (compare 2:2; 10:1). The fool is the person who constantly opposes God’s covenant (1:7b). The simple is the person who is not firmly committed, either to wisdom or to folly; he is easily misled (14:15).

The first nine chapters of Proverbs are “wisdom poems” that urge the reader to pursue wisdom. The main section of Proverbs—the concise, memorable statements of two or three lines—begins in 10:1. Proverbs often seem to be mere observations about life, but their deeper meanings will reveal themselves if the following questions are kept in mind: (1) What virtue does this proverb commend? (2) What vice does it disapprove of? (3) What value does it affirm?

Key Themes

Proverbs offers wisdom on a wide array of topics from daily life: diligence and laziness (6:6–11); friendship (3:27–28; 18:24); speech (10:19–21); marriage (18:22; 19:14); child rearing (22:6); domestic peace (15:17; 17:1); work (11:1); getting along and good manners (23:1–2; 25:16–17; 26:17–19; 27:14); eternity (14:32; 23:17–18); and much more. It shows that “godliness is of value in every way, as it holds promise for the present life and also for the life to come” (1 Tim. 4:8).

  1. God’s will is intensely practical, applying to every aspect of life. A proper relation to God involves trying hard to understand his truth, and then embracing and obeying that truth.
  2. A life lived by God’s will is a happy life (3:21–26).
  3. A life lived by God’s will is a useful life (3:27–28; 12:18, 25).
  4. A life lived by God’s will does not just happen. One must seek after it (9:1–6).

Outline

  1. Title, Goal, and Motto (1:1–7)
  2. A Father’s Invitation to Wisdom (1:8–9:18)
  3. Proverbs of Solomon (10:1–22:16)
  4. The Thirty Sayings of “the Wise” (22:17–24:22)
  5. Further Sayings of “the Wise” (24:23–34)
  6. Hezekiah’s Collection of Solomonic Proverbs (25:1–29:27)
  7. The Sayings of Agur (30:1–33)
  8. The Sayings of King Lemuel (31:1–9)
  9. An Alphabet of Womanly Excellence (31:10–31)
The Global Message of Proverbs

The Global Message of Proverbs

Proverbs: Wisdom for the World

The book of Proverbs is not simply a collection of “wise sayings” for life. It is heaven-sent help for stumbling sinners all over the world from every walk of life who are willing to listen to something other than their own fallen instincts. The “fool” in Proverbs is not someone who lacks intellectual capacity but one who stubbornly lives out of his own fallen intuitions, resisting instruction and correction. Likewise, the wise person in Proverbs is not someone who is intellectually superior but someone who humbly places himself beneath the authority of God. Such wisdom is for all God’s people everywhere.

In his great mercy God has clearly shown wisdom to the world—both through the instruction of his Word and in the person of his Son. The book of Proverbs summarizes true wisdom as rooted in the “fear of the LORD” (Prov. 1:7). In Jesus such wisdom takes on new clarity and glory as the one who is the “wisdom of God” (1 Cor. 1:24) and who “became to us wisdom from God” (1 Cor. 1:30). God’s global people are to receive such wise instruction, to base their wise living in the fear and worship of God, and to testify to a lost world about God’s saving wisdom.

God’s Wisdom Is Theological and Practical

In one sense wisdom is very much universal. It is difficult to find a culture or tradition without its own legacy of wise sayings. Some of these are culture-specific; others reflect the shared human experience.

Scripture’s admonition and exhortation about wisdom, however, is clear. Our faith is not to rest on man’s wisdom but is to be rooted in God’s power (1 Cor. 2:5). The wisdom of this world is “folly with God” (1 Cor. 3:19). Ultimate wisdom is from God (1 Cor. 1:30) and is revealed by God (1 Cor. 2:7). True wisdom is theological and God-given. Those who lack wisdom are to “ask God” for it (James 1:5). It is the Lord who gives wisdom (Prov. 2:6). In Proverbs 9:10 God’s people are reminded again that, “The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom, and the knowledge of the Holy One is insight” (compare 1:7). True wisdom is not the handy tips for life that get handed down from generation to generation among those who do not know God. True wisdom is divine. It is rooted in God’s own saving revelation to his people.

God’s wisdom is not only theological; it is also practical. Indeed, wisdom is practical because it is theological. Theology impacts daily life, and this is clearly seen in the instruction of Proverbs. Everyday life issues are addressed, including parental relations (Prov. 10:1; 15:20; 19:26; 23:25), marriage (5:18; 12:4; 18:22; 19:13–14; 31:10), money (3:9; 10:4; 11:1; 15:16; 16:11), and the power and danger of words (4:5; 7:5; 10:19; 16:24; 17:27). These are life issues that affect people of every age and place. Proverbs provides a picture of both the blessed life grounded in the fear of the Lord and the danger-filled and foolish life of those who despise the Lord’s wisdom and instruction (1:7).

God’s Wisdom Is Individual and Global

Individual wisdom. For every person, in every place, in every time, the message of Proverbs rings true: “The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom” (Prov. 9:10). Wisdom from above is not mere advice or pithy sayings. Rather, the worthiest and most blessed advice flows from God, when he has his proper central place in the heart and worship of each individual created by his hand and in his image.

Global wisdom. The message of Proverbs is also global. This is true, first, because only God’s wisdom comprehensively instructs and skillfully dissects with perfect insight the hearts of mankind from every place and for every time. God’s wisdom is global, second, in that God’s global people are called to global engagement and a global mission. The Lord is not a tribal god. The teaching of Proverbs is not tribal lore. God’s wisdom is eternal and global. And God’s people are called to be instruments, through word and deed, of teaching his wisdom to the world. Those who are wise in God represent God to the world. For example, the wise exhibit generosity to the poor and the needy (Prov. 14:21, 31). The wise in God speak enduring and reliable wisdom to a world desperately looking for life-giving counsel. The wise in God feed even their own enemies (25:21).

Taking God’s Saving Wisdom to the World

In the book of Proverbs the Lord has equipped his people to fulfill his global and eternal purposes. God’s purpose is to reveal himself to and then through a people who will bring eternal blessing to the world, and that purpose is still unfolding around the world today (Matt. 28:18–20). In his kindness God has made known both the path of the wicked (Prov. 4:14) and the path of righteousness (12:28). The one leads to destruction and the other to life (11:19).

When love and grace is observed by the world in the lives of God’s people and supremely in the cross of Christ, it is indeed “folly” to them (1 Cor. 1:18, 21). But “the foolishness of God is wiser than men, and the weakness of God is stronger than men” (1 Cor. 1:25). The wise in God share the good news of the wisdom of God in the gospel of Christ with nations both near and far. Such sharing, when it lands on receptive ears, is “like cold water to a thirsty soul” (Prov. 25:25).In grace God is opening blind eyes through the gospel to his glorious wisdom. In grace he has shown us and empowered us toward a life of God-honoring, upright living. In grace he will use us as his global ambassadors till the day we join in the angelic choir proclaiming, “Amen! Blessing and glory and wisdom and thanksgiving and honor and power and might be to our God forever and ever! Amen” (Rev. 7:12).

Job Fact #9: Proverbs in Job

Fact: Proverbs in Job

Proverbs in Job. In 17:5, Job may have been quoting a proverb to warn his friends not to make false accusations against him. Proverbs are an effective and memorable way of stating a truth. The book of Proverbs is a rich resource of such wisdom.

Proverbs Fact #1: Wisdom

Fact: Wisdom

Wisdom is a key term in Job, Proverbs, and Ecclesiastes. The word can mean “skilled at making sound decisions in life.” Proverbs 9:10 states that “the fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom.”

Proverbs Fact #4: Garlands

Fact: Garlands

Garlands were wreaths woven from leaves and flowers. They were worn around the head or neck during various celebrations such as weddings. They were also symbols of honor for military success. In Proverbs, they symbolize the honor that comes from following the way of wisdom (4:9).

Proverbs Fact #7: The simple person

Fact: The simple person

The simple person (7:7) is one of the primary character types described in the book of Proverbs. The term describes someone who is immature and easily misled (14:15).

Proverbs Fact #10: A different kind of security

Fact: A different kind of security

A different kind of security. In biblical times, if a person was unable to pay his debt, the consequences could be serious. The whole family could be sold into slavery. If someone put up “security” for another person, he promised to pay that person’s debt if he was unable to do so himself. Proverbs teaches that putting up security for another person is generally unwise, since those who do so risk losing everything if the other person cannot pay his debt (11:15).

Proverbs Fact #27: Gluttony

Fact: Gluttony

Gluttony refers to excessive eating. The Bible condemns gluttony as well as drunkenness. Proverbs teaches that eating and drinking in excess can lead to poverty (23:19–21).

Proverbs Fact #28: Hezekiah’s contribution to Proverbs

Fact: Hezekiah’s contribution to Proverbs

Hezekiah’s contribution to Proverbs. Although most of the Proverbs were collected or written by King Solomon, who reigned from 971–931 B.C., the book of Proverbs did not exist in its present form until the time of King Hezekiah, some 200 years later. Hezekiah and “his men,” probably his scribes, recorded chs. 25–29.

Proverbs Fact #29: Rock badgers

Fact: Rock badgers

Rock badgers are small cliff-dwelling animals closely resembling guinea pigs. They live and forage for food in large groups and are good at hiding. They are best known for posting sentries that alert the group when danger is near. Perhaps it was this mark of wisdom that earned them a mention in Proverbs (30:26).

Proverbs Fact #6: Ants

Fact: Ants

Despite their small size, ants are a picture of wisdom and initiative (6:6–8; 30:25). Ant colonies can reach populations of more than half a million, and will work tirelessly during the harvest season to store food for the winter.

Isaiah Fact #34: Finger-pointing

Fact: Finger-pointing

Finger-pointing (58:9) was a very serious gesture that had several potentially negative meanings. It could be taken as an official accusation against someone or could mean that the person was the subject of gossip (Prov. 6:12–13).

OT Testimony that All Are under Sin (3:9)

OT Testimony that All Are under Sin (3:9)

Romans 3 OT Reference
Sinful Condition
v. 10, none is righteous Ps. 14:3/53:3; Eccles. 7:20
v. 11a, no one understands Ps. 14:2/53:2
v. 11b, no one seeks for God Ps. 14:2/53:2
v. 12, all have turned aside; together they have become worthless; no one does good, not even one Ps. 14:3/53:3
Sinful Speech (note progression from throat to tongue to lips)
v. 13a, b, their throat is an open grave; they use their tongues to deceive Ps. 5:10, Septuagint (English, 5:9)
v. 13c, the venom of asps is under their lips Ps. 140:3
v. 14, their mouth is full of curses and bitterness Ps. 10:7
Sinful Action
v. 15, their feet are swift to shed blood Prov. 1:16/Isa. 59:7
v. 16, in their paths are ruin and misery Isa. 59:7
v. 17, and the way of peace they have not known Isa. 59:8
Summary Statement
v. 18, there is no fear of God before their eyes Ps. 36:1
Study Notes

Prov. 6:1–5 security. Promising to pay someone else’s debt if he does not pay it is described as a trap in which one’s life is endangered. A person should not put himself in a position in which his labor or wealth could be wasted because someone else does not pay his debts. This does not mean that putting up security for someone is morally wrong in every situation, but rather that it is generally unwise (see 11:15; 17:18; 20:16; 22:26; 27:13).

Prov. 6:3–5 If the son has already given security for a loan, he is urged to save himself from the whim of the one in debt and plead urgently with him. The point of such pleading is made clear by the comparison to game caught in a trap. The son should focus all his energy on finding a way out of such a situation and thus save himself from ruin.

Study Notes

Prov. 6:7 The fact that the ant has no chief, officer, or ruler shows that it has initiative, which the sluggard lacks.

Study Notes
Proverbs Fact #6: Ants

Fact: Ants

Despite their small size, ants are a picture of wisdom and initiative (6:6–8; 30:25). Ant colonies can reach populations of more than half a million, and will work tirelessly during the harvest season to store food for the winter.

Study Notes

Prov. 6:10 A little sleep, a little slumber. The sluggard may rationalize his late rising and his too-frequent naps as “just a little,” but they destroy his productivity.

Study Notes

Prov. 6:11 The poverty and want that the sluggard’s idleness causes are compared to external forces that will just as surely leave him in poverty (a robber and an armed man).

Study Notes
Isaiah Fact #34: Finger-pointing

Fact: Finger-pointing

Finger-pointing (58:9) was a very serious gesture that had several potentially negative meanings. It could be taken as an official accusation against someone or could mean that the person was the subject of gossip (Prov. 6:12–13).

Study Notes

Prov. 6:12–14 A worthless person, a wicked man describes someone who lacks any desire to act righteously. devises. A worthless person’s communication comes from a perverted heart that intends to create distrust and suspicion among others (continually sowing discord).

Study Notes

Prov. 6:16–19 The literary device of naming six things . . . seven indicates that the list is representative rather than exhaustive (compare 30:15–16, 18–19, 21–31). It also draws particular attention to the final item as the focus of God’s hatred. It is easy to agree that God hates the first six items, but it is also easy to overlook the seventh (one who sows discord), and thus the author surprises the reader.

Study Notes

Prov. 6:20 your mother’s teaching. In chs. 1–9, usually only the father is mentioned. The mother as teacher appears here and in 1:8. The young man’s mother represents respect for the institutions of family and marriage.

Study Notes

Prov. 6:26 Being with a prostitute can be as cheap as a loaf of bread, but having an affair with a married woman can cost the man his very life.

Study Notes

Prov. 6:27–31 The father uses two comparisons to show how adultery leads to disaster. First, he says that one who engages in foolish behavior will suffer for it (vv. 27–29); embracing a neighbor’s wife is like taking fire to one’s chest. Second, he reasons that if someone who steals due to need has to pay a severe penalty, then someone who commits an unnecessary offense will suffer a greater penalty (vv. 30–31).

Study Notes

Prov. 6:35 He will accept no compensation. The offended husband will not be satisfied until you (that is, the son being addressed, vv. 20–25) have paid the full penalty.

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Dive Deeper | Proverbs 6

Lazy: disinclined to action or exertion; habitually slothful; averse to labor; idle; inactive.

It is surprising how much the Bible has to say on the topic of laziness. In this passage, we observe how the ant works hard, prepares for harsh weather, and needs no boss or oversight to tell it to get busy.

This passage goes on to teach that if we habitually stay in bed just a bit longer and sit with hands folded doing nothing, then suddenly and unexpectedly, we will find ourselves poor and needy (Proverbs 6:10-11). Proverbs also teaches that a lazy person doesn't take care of his things (Proverbs 24:30-31), loves sleep (Proverbs 19:15), will be forced to labor or will owe debts (Proverbs 12:24), makes ridiculous excuses about why he cannot work and thinks himself wise (Proverbs 26:13-16), and does not use time wisely (Proverbs 20:4).

Hmm, well that is interesting Old Testament stuff. What does the New Testament say?

1 Timothy 5:8: But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.

2 Thessalonians 3:10-12: For even when we were with you, we would give you this command: If anyone is not willing to work, let him not eat. For we hear that some among you walk in idleness, not busy at work, but busybodies. Now such persons we command and encourage in the Lord Jesus Christ to do their work quietly and to earn their own living.

Wow! According to the New Testament, we should encourage each other to work, to provide for our families, and to lead a disciplined life—avoiding too much sleep or folding of the hands (or scrolling aimlessly on an electronic device) because these do not honor God.

Beyond the diligent work demonstrated by an ant, Colossians 3:23-24 urges us to "work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men . . . ."

So church, with a joyful and grateful heart, LET'S GO!

This month's memory verse

with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love,

– Ephesians 4:2

Discussion Questions

1. How has this discussion of laziness challenged you?

2. Can you name two things you will change based on the biblical principles highlighted here?

3. How do you think we can apply this teaching on laziness in our Community Groups? In our outreach efforts?

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Sarah Crotty

Dawn, thank you for the encouragement of these solid points and helpful scriptures, especially the zinger about scrolling! Proverbs 6:23 For the commandment is a lamp and the teaching a light, and the reproofs of discipline are the way of life,
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Hugh Stephenson

What is my best defense against sexual sin and all these other temptations? Some notes from our friends at The Eden Project Exodus 2:23-25 God Hears, Remembers, Sees, Knows. (ESV) God Hears Israel's Groaning 23 During those many days the king of Egypt died, and the people of Israel groaned because of their slavery and cried out for help. Their cry for rescue from slavery came up to God. 24 And God heard their groaning, and God remembered his covenant with Abraham, with Isaac, and with Jacob. 25 God saw the people of Israel—and God knew. What’s powerful about this passage is that God conveys an important piece of His design for relationships. He is totally connected and empathetic. He knows all my ups and downs. He knows all my struggles. He is aware of them. He hears my cries, He “remembers” His covenant promises to His people. He sees my pain and anguish. And he knows about my temptations and torments. His call to me is to embrace the truth that I have a choice to orient towards Him or to myself. Orienting towards Him means that I become aware of my deep need for Him and that a surrendered and undivided heart is the precondition to a deep and abiding relationship with Him.
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Hugh Stephenson

The Eden Project guys frame this using Isaiah 7- “I don’t know.” “I can’t do.” “Please help”. There is no room for “self” here. It’s all Him. I must embrace and acknowledge that the road back to Eden comes from “an unbroken dependence fueled by the Holy Spirit”. To me, this is the path to the depth of connection that opens up His wisdom to me. I see it as the living out of Proverbs 1:7 and Proverbs 4:23. This is a key element as part of my armor of God that equips me for the battle in the spiritual realm. Not just against the temptation to sexual sin detailed in chapters 5, 6, and 7 but against the greater and wider battle against all sin. As I live this out it’s part of His call to me to proclaim, witness, and teach- (Psalm 71:18, Acts 1:8, Matthew 28:19-20).
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Michael Scaman

To sum up: "Proverbs 6 says: Be as industrious as the ant, planning for the future, hustling for success without constant prodding." "It warns: Avoid co-signing loans recklessly, lest financial trouble becomes a relentless companion." "Stay vigilant, steer clear of deceit, for the pitfalls of dishonesty can unravel even the best-laid plans." "In a nutshell: Work hard, manage your financial affairs wisely, and uphold honesty to navigate life's twists with resilience." For a positive example, someone like Warren Buffett, the renowned investor and philanthropist, is often praised for his work ethic, financial acumen, and straightforward honesty. It's serious as a heart attack. "Can a man carry fire next to his chest and his clothes not be burned? Or can one walk on hot coals and his feet not be scorched?" There are many areas of life we might be lazy even beyond money: relationships, use of time, prayer and study of the word
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greg jones

When I think of Watermark (not just Watermark) I think of this, if you’re not overachieving you’re not keeping up. For those who know success, the best of the best, that challenge is very appealing. Why some people are content with just being the best of the rest I’m not sure. But apparently they’re out there.
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Sue Bohlin

Super devo, Dawn, thank you. I'm so glad we are starting out our year in the Word here in Proverbs. And I'm so glad that, right out of the gate, we are reading or hearing Solomon's wise warnings about sexual sin because our broken perspective on sex is a major part of the water we swim in. Verse 33 says for the man who indulges in adultery, "his shame will never be wiped away." I learned from Dallas counselor Waylon Ward that there is greater intensity of shame and pain when issues involve sexual sin. He wrote in his book "Sex Matters": “In the counseling office, individuals rarely if ever weep scalding tears about any other sense of loss like they do for a sexual relationship when it ends. There are soul ties that bind two partners together in unseen ways and there is a sense that part of you has been stolen. There is a hole in your soul where the connection was ripped from you.” Solomon understood (despite his hypocritical and disobedient choice to take 700 wives and 300 concubines, exposing a real sexual problem) that God's intention for us to keep sex within the confines of the marriage bed reveals His heart of love and compassion for us. He wants us to avoid the pain and scars of ignoring His wise instruction.
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Lindsey Driscoll

Dawn, Thank you for your “LET’S GO!” Encouragement to be diligent to the work the Lord has called us to. It’s fun to watch ants with my little kids and see them out huge pieces of food on their backs and move them around - constantly moving. What a tiny yet powerful example God gave us in his creation! Q2- 2 things to change: less screen time on my phone, and and prayer over my daily to do list.
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Ruby Anderson

I believe that the end results like the ants gathering what they need later is such motiving factor. Sleep is good too much is not. I plan to be more focus with purpose like the ant.
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Maryann Adams

Thank you, Dawn! Was at South Dallas last August for the first time and greatly blessed! This proverb/devo was so great that I had to read it twice. It made me think about the subtle temptation to “coast” at times in relationships/groups, etc., relying too much on others, not taking initiative like we ought. Glad for the additional references.
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Amy Lowther

1. It has me accounting for what I do, what I intend to do, and what I have been doing. 2. I’m not going to change anything, though I admit this biblical passage is good. I agree it is important to love thy neighbor (to love others) as God would. It helps everything and everyone improve. Life also improves when you are responsible for yourself and for what you do. It is important to value and love yourself as God would, not valuing and loving yourself based on others or materialistic things in your environment. It helps reduce stress, helps increase energy, and helps with personal satisfaction of life. 3. In our community groups, these are theories that can be discussed so people possibly struggling in their current situations can find words to say so they can work through struggles with people who are relevant. In outreach efforts, these theories can help people relate to and work together when typically they would not. Dawn - Thank you for sharing your ideas. Congratulations on being a member of Watermark in South Dallas. I am excited for your volunteer experiences because of the ideas you shared and your intentional efforts to read Proverbs once a year every year. I also like your point “It is surprising how much the Bible has to say on the topic of laziness”. The Bible IS a great resource as people experience life so they can do their best. It is never known what is in the Bible until it is given a little time and a little effort in reading it.