February 9, 2023
Big Idea
We can trust God when we don't know how things will turn out.
"If the God of my father, the God of Abraham and the Fear of Isaac, had not been on my side, surely now you would have sent me away empty-handed. God saw my affliction and the labor of my hands and rebuked you last night."
22 When it was told Laban on the third day that Jacob had fled, 23 he took his kinsmen with him and pursued him for seven days and followed close after him into the hill country of Gilead. 24 But God came to Laban the Aramean in a dream by night and said to him, “Be careful not to say anything to Jacob, either good or bad.”
25 And Laban overtook Jacob. Now Jacob had pitched his tent in the hill country, and Laban with his kinsmen pitched tents in the hill country of Gilead. 26 And Laban said to Jacob, “What have you done, that you have tricked me and driven away my daughters like captives of the sword? 27 Why did you flee secretly and trick me, and did not tell me, so that I might have sent you away with mirth and songs, with tambourine and lyre? 28 And why did you not permit me to kiss my sons and my daughters farewell? Now you have done foolishly. 29 It is in my power to do you harm. But the God of your 1 31:29 The Hebrew for your is plural here father spoke to me last night, saying, ‘Be careful not to say anything to Jacob, either good or bad.’ 30 And now you have gone away because you longed greatly for your father's house, but why did you steal my gods?” 31 Jacob answered and said to Laban, “Because I was afraid, for I thought that you would take your daughters from me by force. 32 Anyone with whom you find your gods shall not live. In the presence of our kinsmen point out what I have that is yours, and take it.” Now Jacob did not know that Rachel had stolen them.
33 So Laban went into Jacob's tent and into Leah's tent and into the tent of the two female servants, but he did not find them. And he went out of Leah's tent and entered Rachel's. 34 Now Rachel had taken the household gods and put them in the camel's saddle and sat on them. Laban felt all about the tent, but did not find them. 35 And she said to her father, “Let not my lord be angry that I cannot rise before you, for the way of women is upon me.” So he searched but did not find the household gods.
36 Then Jacob became angry and berated Laban. Jacob said to Laban, “What is my offense? What is my sin, that you have hotly pursued me? 37 For you have felt through all my goods; what have you found of all your household goods? Set it here before my kinsmen and your kinsmen, that they may decide between us two. 38 These twenty years I have been with you. Your ewes and your female goats have not miscarried, and I have not eaten the rams of your flocks. 39 What was torn by wild beasts I did not bring to you. I bore the loss of it myself. From my hand you required it, whether stolen by day or stolen by night. 40 There I was: by day the heat consumed me, and the cold by night, and my sleep fled from my eyes. 41 These twenty years I have been in your house. I served you fourteen years for your two daughters, and six years for your flock, and you have changed my wages ten times. 42 If the God of my father, the God of Abraham and the Fear of Isaac, had not been on my side, surely now you would have sent me away empty-handed. God saw my affliction and the labor of my hands and rebuked you last night.”
43 Then Laban answered and said to Jacob, “The daughters are my daughters, the children are my children, the flocks are my flocks, and all that you see is mine. But what can I do this day for these my daughters or for their children whom they have borne? 44 Come now, let us make a covenant, you and I. And let it be a witness between you and me.” 45 So Jacob took a stone and set it up as a pillar. 46 And Jacob said to his kinsmen, “Gather stones.” And they took stones and made a heap, and they ate there by the heap. 47 Laban called it Jegar-sahadutha, 2 31:47 Aramaic the heap of witness but Jacob called it Galeed. 3 31:47 Hebrew the heap of witness 48 Laban said, “This heap is a witness between you and me today.” Therefore he named it Galeed, 49 and Mizpah, 4 31:49 Mizpah means watchpost for he said, “The LORD watch between you and me, when we are out of one another's sight. 50 If you oppress my daughters, or if you take wives besides my daughters, although no one is with us, see, God is witness between you and me.”
51 Then Laban said to Jacob, “See this heap and the pillar, which I have set between you and me. 52 This heap is a witness, and the pillar is a witness, that I will not pass over this heap to you, and you will not pass over this heap and this pillar to me, to do harm. 53 The God of Abraham and the God of Nahor, the God of their father, judge between us.” So Jacob swore by the Fear of his father Isaac, 54 and Jacob offered a sacrifice in the hill country and called his kinsmen to eat bread. They ate bread and spent the night in the hill country.
55 5 31:55 Ch 32:1 in Hebrew Early in the morning Laban arose and kissed his grandchildren and his daughters and blessed them. Then Laban departed and returned home.
At this point in Jacob's life, he has been serving Laban for 20 years as a shepherd. Jacob is a master deceiver (you know the story: birthright and blessing), yet God has shown him favor. All the flocks Jacob has been shepherding are prospering, and he has 11 sons. God tells Jacob to return to his homeland, but as Jacob leaves, he tricks Laban and does not tell him that he is fleeing as he takes his wives, children, and flocks with him.
When Laban finds out Jacob has left, he pursues and overtakes him. God protects Jacob and warns Laban in a dream to not harm him. Jacob tells Laban, "If the God of my father, the God of Abraham and the Fear of Isaac, had not been on my side, surely now you would have sent me away empty-handed. God saw my affliction and the labor of my hands and rebuked you last night." (Genesis 31:42) They make a covenant to not invade one another's land, and Jacob sets off to his homeland.
Jacob knew that God told him to leave and return to his homeland, but we see him not trust that God will keep him safe. When Laban asks Jacob why he fled, he responds, "Because I was afraid, for I thought that you would take your daughters from me by force." (Genesis 31:31). God did not withhold His protection of Jacob even though Jacob doubted God. We see that even "if we are faithless, he remains faithful" (2 Timothy 2:13).
A lot of times I find myself acting like Jacob—willing to follow what God has told me to do but not wanting to persevere when things get hard. I don't trust God that I will be okay, and I begin to see my sin and brokenness and think I'm not good enough for God to use me. Jacob's life is a reminder that we are all sinful and that God uses broken people to accomplish His purposes. Ultimately, Jacob returns to his homeland where God uses him to continue fulfilling the promise He made to Jacob's ancestors, Abraham and Isaac. As promised, their people would be blessed and a nation would come through them.
This month's memory verse
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Whoever walks in integrity walks securely,
but he who makes his ways crooked will be found out.
1. Is there anything in your life that you feel like, "If only I hadn't __________, then God could use me"? Is there anything in your life that feels like it disqualifies you from being a beneficiary of God's goodness? What Scripture can you turn to in order to combat that thought?
2. What is something you feel like you're persevering through now in your life? Is there anything you can surrender to God that you've taken control of and need to let it go?
3. God has been pursuing people since the start of creation and has desired a relationship with His people. Do you believe God is pursuing a relationship with you?
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