February 16, 2024
Big Book Idea
God defines where true meaning is found.
It is better to go to the house of mourning than to go to the house of feasting,
for this is the end of all mankind, and the living will lay it to heart.
1
A good name is better than precious ointment,
and the day of death than the day of birth.
2
It is better to go to the house of mourning
than to go to the house of feasting,
for this is the end of all mankind,
and the living will lay it to heart.
3
Sorrow is better than laughter,
for by sadness of face the heart is made glad.
4
The heart of the wise is in the house of mourning,
but the heart of fools is in the house of mirth.
5
It is better for a man to hear the rebuke of the wise
than to hear the song of fools.
6
For as the crackling of thorns under a pot,
so is the laughter of the fools;
this also is vanity.
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7:6
The Hebrew term hebel can refer to a vapor or mere breath (see note on 1:2)
7
Surely oppression drives the wise into madness,
and a bribe corrupts the heart.
8
Better is the end of a thing than its beginning,
and the patient in spirit is better than the proud in spirit.
9
Be not quick in your spirit to become angry,
for anger lodges in the heart
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7:9
Hebrew in the bosom
of fools.
10
Say not, “Why were the former days better than these?”
For it is not from wisdom that you ask this.
11
Wisdom is good with an inheritance,
an advantage to those who see the sun.
12
For the protection of wisdom is like the protection of money,
and the advantage of knowledge is that wisdom preserves the life of him who has it.
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Consider the work of God:
who can make straight what he has made crooked?
14 In the day of prosperity be joyful, and in the day of adversity consider: God has made the one as well as the other, so that man may not find out anything that will be after him.
15 In my vain 3 7:15 The Hebrew term hebel can refer to a vapor or mere breath (see note on 1:2) life I have seen everything. There is a righteous man who perishes in his righteousness, and there is a wicked man who prolongs his life in his evildoing. 16 Be not overly righteous, and do not make yourself too wise. Why should you destroy yourself? 17 Be not overly wicked, neither be a fool. Why should you die before your time? 18 It is good that you should take hold of this, and from that withhold not your hand, for the one who fears God shall come out from both of them.
19 Wisdom gives strength to the wise man more than ten rulers who are in a city.
20 Surely there is not a righteous man on earth who does good and never sins.
21 Do not take to heart all the things that people say, lest you hear your servant cursing you. 22 Your heart knows that many times you yourself have cursed others.
23 All this I have tested by wisdom. I said, “I will be wise,” but it was far from me. 24 That which has been is far off, and deep, very deep; who can find it out?
25 I turned my heart to know and to search out and to seek wisdom and the scheme of things, and to know the wickedness of folly and the foolishness that is madness. 26 And I find something more bitter than death: the woman whose heart is snares and nets, and whose hands are fetters. He who pleases God escapes her, but the sinner is taken by her. 27 Behold, this is what I found, says the Preacher, while adding one thing to another to find the scheme of things— 28 which my soul has sought repeatedly, but I have not found. One man among a thousand I found, but a woman among all these I have not found. 29 See, this alone I found, that God made man upright, but they have sought out many schemes.
The author of Ecclesiastes calls himself “the Preacher” (1:1). Some interpreters have concluded that this was Solomon, while others think he was a role-playing writer later than Solomon. Either way, the book claims that its wisdom comes from the “one Shepherd” (12:11), the Lord himself.
The theme of Ecclesiastes is the necessity of fearing God in this fallen, confusing world. Each human being wants to understand all the ways God is acting in the world, but he cannot, because he is not God. And yet the faithful do not despair but cling to God, even when they cannot see what God is doing. The Lord deserves his people’s trust. They can leave everything to him while they seek to understand what it means to “fear God and keep his commandments” (12:13). This is true wisdom.
Ecclesiastes encourages God’s people to trust him in a fallen and often confusing world, in which sin and heartache touch every corner of the globe. We are to “fear God and keep his commandments” (12:13), even when we cannot understand everything that is going on around us.
The words vanity, vanities, and vain occur nearly 40 times in Ecclesiastes. Their literal meaning is “vapor” or “breath,” so they are used to describe things that can be fleeting or elusive, like the search for meaning and purpose in life.
“Eat, drink, and be merry”? Ecclesiastes advises those who serve God to enjoy his gifts of food, drink, comfort, married life, and honest work (9:7–9; compare 2:24–26; 3:13; 5:19–20).
Romans 3 | OT Reference |
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Sinful Condition | |
v. 10, none is righteous | Ps. 14:3/53:3; Eccles. 7:20 |
v. 11a, no one understands | Ps. 14:2/53:2 |
v. 11b, no one seeks for God | Ps. 14:2/53:2 |
v. 12, all have turned aside; together they have become worthless; no one does good, not even one | Ps. 14:3/53:3 |
Sinful Speech (note progression from throat to tongue to lips) | |
v. 13a, b, their throat is an open grave; they use their tongues to deceive | Ps. 5:10, Septuagint (English, 5:9) |
v. 13c, the venom of asps is under their lips | Ps. 140:3 |
v. 14, their mouth is full of curses and bitterness | Ps. 10:7 |
Sinful Action | |
v. 15, their feet are swift to shed blood | Prov. 1:16/Isa. 59:7 |
v. 16, in their paths are ruin and misery | Isa. 59:7 |
v. 17, and the way of peace they have not known | Isa. 59:8 |
Summary Statement | |
v. 18, there is no fear of God before their eyes | Ps. 36:1 |
Eccles. 7:1 The verses that follow indicate that the day of death refers not to one’s own passing but rather to experiencing the death of another. Bereavement often increases spiritual wisdom more than the joy one feels over a newborn child.
Eccles. 7:7 Oppression refers here to blackmail.
Eccles. 7:11–12 Wisdom is similar to money in that both provide real protection against the misfortunes of life. Wisdom, however, preserves the life of him who has it.
Eccles. 7:15 Righteous and righteousness can refer to being “right” or “just” in one’s cause. The Preacher has observed instances in which a person who was technically in the right still lost his case.
Eccles. 7:16–18 Be not overly righteous. One should not always insist on being proved right in an argument. On the other hand, be not overly wicked, neither be a fool. That is, one should also know when to stand firm for a just cause.
Romans 3 | OT Reference |
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Sinful Condition | |
v. 10, none is righteous | Ps. 14:3/53:3; Eccles. 7:20 |
v. 11a, no one understands | Ps. 14:2/53:2 |
v. 11b, no one seeks for God | Ps. 14:2/53:2 |
v. 12, all have turned aside; together they have become worthless; no one does good, not even one | Ps. 14:3/53:3 |
Sinful Speech (note progression from throat to tongue to lips) | |
v. 13a, b, their throat is an open grave; they use their tongues to deceive | Ps. 5:10, Septuagint (English, 5:9) |
v. 13c, the venom of asps is under their lips | Ps. 140:3 |
v. 14, their mouth is full of curses and bitterness | Ps. 10:7 |
Sinful Action | |
v. 15, their feet are swift to shed blood | Prov. 1:16/Isa. 59:7 |
v. 16, in their paths are ruin and misery | Isa. 59:7 |
v. 17, and the way of peace they have not known | Isa. 59:8 |
Summary Statement | |
v. 18, there is no fear of God before their eyes | Ps. 36:1 |
Eccles. 5:8–7:24 Life “Under the Sun.” The Preacher observes the hardships of life in a fallen world.
Eccles. 7:27 “Find” is a key word in vv. 25–29. It means “figure out” or “comprehend.”
Eccles. 7:25–29 The Heart of the Problem: Sin. The Preacher has made numerous references to human sinfulness. This short section helps to explain how this sorry condition came about.
Eccles. 7:28–29 One man . . . I found, but a woman . . . I have not found. The Preacher is unable to “figure out” human beings. His one firm conclusion is that God made man upright, but they have sought out many schemes, that is, humans were not content to remain in their state of righteousness but instead rebelled against God (see Genesis 3).
"Coffins preach better than cribs." So says David Gibson in his book Living Life Backwards, which unpacks Solomon's wisdom from Ecclesiastes 7.
What is Solomon communicating here? Ecclesiastes 7:1 tells us that the day of death is better than the day of birth. Wait, what? Like much of Solomon's wisdom, it seems counterintuitive. Read on. Ecclesiastes 7:2 informs us that it is better to go to a house of mourning than a house of feasting. More countercultural wisdom—funerals aren't fun! But do we learn more about things that really matter at a party or at a funeral? Ecclesiastes 7:3 shows that sorrow is better than laughter because being sad is good for the heart. Finally, Ecclesiastes 7:4 says that the heart of the wise is in the house of mourning versus the fool in the house of pleasure.
So what is Solomon trying to tell us? Sitting at a funeral in the sobering sadness of a life coming to an end makes us stop to think about death. In doing so, we ask how we're tracking with whom we want to be, we dream about what a Kingdom-minded life looks like, we plan for how to prioritize the right things in our life, and we pray for the Lord's help to not get distracted by the world. We all want to live a life worthy of His calling and to someday hear, "Well done, good and faithful servant." (Matthew 25:21, 23). But it won't happen without intentionality.
While I appreciate a good party, I've also learned more at funerals than during celebrations or weddings. One speaks to the hope of what could be, whereas the other speaks to the reality of what has been. Attending a funeral should provide urgency around mortality—mortality outward, being urgent to share the gospel with others, and mortality inward, remembering that someday the funeral will be mine. Before I come face-to-face with my Maker, I'd be wise to ponder what will be true about my life. Live life backwards!
This month's memory verse
Yahweh! The Lord! The God of compassion and mercy! I am slow to anger and filled with unfailing love and faithfulness.
1. If you knew you were going to die in 12 months, would you live your life any differently? Why not start living that way now?
2. How wide is the gap between how you want to be remembered after death and what will actually be said about you?
3. What is your main life ambition, and how does thinking about death affect it?
4. How can you balance the "fun" parties with the "hard" moments of life to spend time in personal reflection? What is God trying to teach you in times of sorrow that will help you finish life better?
5. What role can biblical community play in helping you to live your life backwards?
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