January 8, 2024
Big Book Idea
Living wisely; God's way.
With much seductive speech she persuades him;
with her smooth talk she compels him.
All at once he follows her,
as an ox goes to the slaughter,
or as a stag is caught fast
till an arrow pierces its liver;
as a bird rushes into a snare;
he does not know that it will cost him his life.
1
My son, keep my words
and treasure up my commandments with you;
2
keep my commandments and live;
keep my teaching as the apple of your eye;
3
bind them on your fingers;
write them on the tablet of your heart.
4
Say to wisdom, “You are my sister,”
and call insight your intimate friend,
5
to keep you from the forbidden
1
7:5
Hebrew strange
woman,
from the adulteress
2
7:5
Hebrew the foreign woman
with her smooth words.
6
For at the window of my house
I have looked out through my lattice,
7
and I have seen among the simple,
I have perceived among the youths,
a young man lacking sense,
8
passing along the street near her corner,
taking the road to her house
9
in the twilight, in the evening,
at the time of night and darkness.
10
And behold, the woman meets him,
dressed as a prostitute, wily of heart.
3
7:10
Hebrew guarded in heart
11
She is loud and wayward;
her feet do not stay at home;
12
now in the street, now in the market,
and at every corner she lies in wait.
13
She seizes him and kisses him,
and with bold face she says to him,
14
“I had to offer sacrifices,
4
7:14
Hebrew peace offerings
and today I have paid my vows;
15
so now I have come out to meet you,
to seek you eagerly, and I have found you.
16
I have spread my couch with coverings,
colored linens from Egyptian linen;
17
I have perfumed my bed with myrrh,
aloes, and cinnamon.
18
Come, let us take our fill of love till morning;
let us delight ourselves with love.
19
For my husband is not at home;
he has gone on a long journey;
20
he took a bag of money with him;
at full moon he will come home.”
21
With much seductive speech she persuades him;
with her smooth talk she compels him.
22
All at once he follows her,
as an ox goes to the slaughter,
or as a stag is caught fast
5
7:22
Probable reading (compare Septuagint, Vulgate, Syriac); Hebrew as a chain to discipline a fool
23
till an arrow pierces its liver;
as a bird rushes into a snare;
he does not know that it will cost him his life.
24
And now, O sons, listen to me,
and be attentive to the words of my mouth.
25
Let not your heart turn aside to her ways;
do not stray into her paths,
26
for many a victim has she laid low,
and all her slain are a mighty throng.
27
Her house is the way to Sheol,
going down to the chambers of death.
Proverbs itself mentions Solomon (reigned c. 971–931 B.C.) as author or collector of its contents (1:1; 10:1), including the proverbs copied by Hezekiah’s men (25:1). There are also two batches of sayings from a group called “the wise” (22:17–24:22; 24:23–34), and “oracles” from Agur (30:1–33) and Lemuel (31:1–9). No author is named for the song in praise of the excellent wife that ends the book (31:10–31). Although Proverbs was begun in the time of Solomon, it probably was not in its present form until the time of Hezekiah (reigned c. 715–686 B.C.).
The goal of the book is stated right at the beginning (1:1–7): to describe what wisdom is and to help God’s people become wise. Wisdom is founded in the “fear of the Lord,” and it enables believers to express their faith in the practical details of everyday life.
The book is addressed to a young man. The situations he will face while he is young receive much attention. These situations supply concrete examples from which all readers can apply lessons to their own lives. Anyone who is wise and who pays attention will benefit (1:5) from this instruction.
The reader of Proverbs must seek to understand the various types of people the book describes. The most obvious characters in the book are the wise, the fool, and the simple. Proverbs urges its readers to be wise, which means embracing God’s covenant and living out the covenant in everyday situations (compare 2:2; 10:1). The fool is the person who constantly opposes God’s covenant (1:7b). The simple is the person who is not firmly committed, either to wisdom or to folly; he is easily misled (14:15).
The first nine chapters of Proverbs are “wisdom poems” that urge the reader to pursue wisdom. The main section of Proverbs—the concise, memorable statements of two or three lines—begins in 10:1. Proverbs often seem to be mere observations about life, but their deeper meanings will reveal themselves if the following questions are kept in mind: (1) What virtue does this proverb commend? (2) What vice does it disapprove of? (3) What value does it affirm?
Proverbs offers wisdom on a wide array of topics from daily life: diligence and laziness (6:6–11); friendship (3:27–28; 18:24); speech (10:19–21); marriage (18:22; 19:14); child rearing (22:6); domestic peace (15:17; 17:1); work (11:1); getting along and good manners (23:1–2; 25:16–17; 26:17–19; 27:14); eternity (14:32; 23:17–18); and much more. It shows that “godliness is of value in every way, as it holds promise for the present life and also for the life to come” (1 Tim. 4:8).
Wisdom is a key term in Job, Proverbs, and Ecclesiastes. The word can mean “skilled at making sound decisions in life.” Proverbs 9:10 states that “the fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom.”
A different kind of security. In biblical times, if a person was unable to pay his debt, the consequences could be serious. The whole family could be sold into slavery. If someone put up “security” for another person, he promised to pay that person’s debt if he was unable to do so himself. Proverbs teaches that putting up security for another person is generally unwise, since those who do so risk losing everything if the other person cannot pay his debt (11:15).
Hezekiah’s contribution to Proverbs. Although most of the Proverbs were collected or written by King Solomon, who reigned from 971–931 B.C., the book of Proverbs did not exist in its present form until the time of King Hezekiah, some 200 years later. Hezekiah and “his men,” probably his scribes, recorded chs. 25–29.
Rock badgers are small cliff-dwelling animals closely resembling guinea pigs. They live and forage for food in large groups and are good at hiding. They are best known for posting sentries that alert the group when danger is near. Perhaps it was this mark of wisdom that earned them a mention in Proverbs (30:26).
Kissing was a cultural means of showing respect, friendship, or reverence, as it is in many places today. A kiss was often given as a form of greeting or farewell (19:39). There are only three places in all of Scripture where kissing is connected with romance (Prov. 7:13, Song 1:2; 8:1.).
Romans 3 | OT Reference |
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Sinful Condition | |
v. 10, none is righteous | Ps. 14:3/53:3; Eccles. 7:20 |
v. 11a, no one understands | Ps. 14:2/53:2 |
v. 11b, no one seeks for God | Ps. 14:2/53:2 |
v. 12, all have turned aside; together they have become worthless; no one does good, not even one | Ps. 14:3/53:3 |
Sinful Speech (note progression from throat to tongue to lips) | |
v. 13a, b, their throat is an open grave; they use their tongues to deceive | Ps. 5:10, Septuagint (English, 5:9) |
v. 13c, the venom of asps is under their lips | Ps. 140:3 |
v. 14, their mouth is full of curses and bitterness | Ps. 10:7 |
Sinful Action | |
v. 15, their feet are swift to shed blood | Prov. 1:16/Isa. 59:7 |
v. 16, in their paths are ruin and misery | Isa. 59:7 |
v. 17, and the way of peace they have not known | Isa. 59:8 |
Summary Statement | |
v. 18, there is no fear of God before their eyes | Ps. 36:1 |
Prov. 7:6–9 The simple and the young stumble into adultery by putting themselves in the wrong place (v. 8) at the wrong time (v. 9). This is in contrast to the clear instruction of 5:8 to “keep your way from her, and do not go near the door of her house.”
Prov. 7:11–12 The woman is described in terms similar to Wisdom, who cried aloud in the streets and markets (see 1:20–21). But these are the actions of the woman Folly (see 9:13–18). Her actions (loud, wayward, in the street, in the market) show that she has a deceptive heart.
Kissing was a cultural means of showing respect, friendship, or reverence, as it is in many places today. A kiss was often given as a form of greeting or farewell (19:39). There are only three places in all of Scripture where kissing is connected with romance (Prov. 7:13, Song 1:2; 8:1.).
Prov. 7:13–20 The woman tries many things to appeal to the young man. She kisses him boldly in public. She flatters him into thinking he is someone special (to meet you, to seek you eagerly, v. 15). She promises sensual delights (vv. 16–18) and assures him that their affair will not be discovered (her husband will not be back anytime soon, vv. 19–20).
Prov. 7:24–25 The narrative of the fool and the trap are meant to instill in the sons the good sense to keep far from such ways or paths. Such caution is learned by obeying the father’s commandments (v. 4). Wisdom will keep them from wayward women (v. 5).
Prov. 7:26–27 The woman promises immediate pleasure, but such pleasure leads to the chambers of death.
This passage provides a vivid illustration that when we pursue worldly pleasure and ignore the wisdom of God, pain and death are sure to follow. Much like God sees us, the writer of Proverbs 7 is watching the protagonists in his story (Proverbs 7:6-7). He is like an experienced coach studying game film: he knows what to look for and can identify the smallest [in]actions that lead to failure. He saw and discerned the "simple" young man's naïveté and lack of judgment (Proverbs 7:7) in wandering where he should not go. The young man passively permitted himself to be in the wrong place, at the wrong time (Proverbs 7:8-9). Compared to the young man's naïveté, the seductive intent of the immoral woman and her intentions were bold and deceitful (Proverbs 7:10-11, 13). She seduced him with her words (Proverbs 7:10-15) and appealed to his physical senses (Proverbs 7:16-17) to lure him into submission. The young man didn't resist; and "as a stag is caught fast" (Proverbs 7:22), he's caught in her fatal snare.
Temptation isn't limited to any particular location or vice, but it boldly goes and lies in wait "at every corner" (Proverbs 7:12). We all are prone to many kinds of temptation. Like Jesus rebuked temptation in the wilderness (Matthew 4:1-11), God wants us to be aware of Satan's means and methods of temptation so that we can recognize them and resist (Hebrews 4:15).
The passage begins and ends with specific active tense instructions on what we should do to take every thought captive to obey Christ (2 Corinthians 10:5) and rely upon God's wisdom to avoid temptation. Instead of the foolish young man, we can respond like Joseph when tempted by Potiphar's wife: he knew and remembered God's provision; he actively resisted temptation; and when that failed, he ran for his life. Like athletes devote themselves to studying game film, we should learn to identify our own specific [in]actions and tendencies that lead us into temptation and toward sin, so that we can apply God's wisdom and deliverance (1 Corinthians 10:13).
This month's memory verse
with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love,
1. Do you identify with the "young man" in Proverbs 7? Do you find yourself in compromising situations, wonder how you even got there, and find that it seems difficult or impossible to extricate yourself from them? If the young man sets his mind on wisdom and desires to avoid this temptation in the future, what does a review of his "game film" suggest that he could do differently?
2. What does your game film say about your weak spots? What places, people, or circumstances frequently precede your times of temptation? What wise decisions do you need to make to avoid making these mistakes?
3. What new habits or practices can you implement to walk with the wise and righteous who will remind you of Scripture and the Lord's wisdom in any and all circumstances? Are you in community or do you have a faithful friend involved in your life to help you review and clearly see your "game film"?
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